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After about 9 months I realized I had really deep feelings for her, at 12 months I confessed them to her. That was 7 years ago and now we are married with a two-year-old.

We met on Tinder where I specifically told her I was only looking for a fwb. We saw each other once or twice a month for a year, very casually, before things started really heating up. We were perfect together in and out of bed. It became clear that we should just be together. She was beautiful and successful and had a lot of friends, I was living with my parents and trying to get my life together.

One day she told me she was seeing someone else and caught the hurt look in my eye. I was attracted with her enough to sleep with her, initially, and the more we started hanging out laughing in bed and talking, the more I liked her as a person. I kept sleeping with her which was a big mistake and I fell into a pretty bad depression. There was something about those nights with her in my arms that made me open up to the possibility of being together. She had kind of entered into the agreement with that notion, so we started officially dating after just a month of trying to be casual.

We were good friends before we decided to start sleeping together with no promises or strings attached, but of course that only deepened our bond and brought us close together.

We were inseparable soon after, that was 9 years ago. It was a dream I had that I was about to act on, but my feelings for her made me stay. She makes me feel completely loved and cared for in and out of the bedroom.

We cuddled like we were lovers. She was always touching me, even if we were just watching TV getting ready to wind down and go to bed together. The feeling of closeness we developed was intoxicating. After a few months I told her I had to be with her officially or walk away. I slept with her and pursued more for two years, but she never came around. I finally got the resolve to walk away, but it was almost a year before I stopped hurting over her.

You generally talk minimally in order to ensure your feelings stay as far away from your sex filled relationship as possible. But the line and boundaries drawn in a FWB relationship are never crystal clear.

It could be feelings, jealously, complications, or whatever your personal experience with your FWB turned out like. If something happened at work that you brought up last time you were together, he will do a follow up question. He will try to slyly bring it in to the conversation like it just popped into his head, but he remembered what you said all along.

He wants to try to fit into your personal life and built a relationship outside of sex. Remember how last time you were together and you said you really wanted a doughnut? He tries to keep it casual like going to a drive thru with him and he pay. Or him asking you to help him with some shopping because, you know, guys hate shopping. But it progresses and your relationship starts taking place outside the bedroom more and more frequently. He brings you to his cousins wedding or to a family BBQ or to meet the family for a special occasion.

He tries to make you laugh or will call you just to talk. He takes thing further than just being FWB. He shows you effort and tries to be in your life and build a deeper relationship than just FWB.

But things change, feelings are unpredictable and he might be one of the few who actually see something more than just sex with you. A new Thought Catalog series exploring our connection to each other, our food, and where it comes from.

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However, we do that and he still calls and texts, asks me for dinner and always wants me to come over?? The same behaviours as when we were serious?

What do I say now? I have tried to establish new boundaries. Problem is I love him and he still tells me he loves me? I think he wants to play the field. No other life issue to hold him up?? As hard as it is, I would hope I would have the strength to move on if I again find myself in your situation.

When he casually texts, or casually asks to see you, you can see Mr. I did it, but with broken heart. I was in soul pain very long time…but after all this I see myself, True Me much more than before.

I know I am amazing Creation and I want everything. I just recently found your page on Youtube. It is defiantly a plus when you get to listen to an attractive man with an accent through each video. Today I have an off topic question for you. I am a single mother of two girls at age As a slightly younger single mother of two girls I feel torn sometimes with my age mixed with being a mother that it makes it harder to find someone.

I keep my dating life and home life separate but how long is too long? What advice in the future can you give me when I am finally ready to open the dating part of my life back up? Especially when most all of my time is with my children. I am still God bless wish you the best in life and and look forward to more of your attractive videos. Get a babysitter, go on dates. Balance means taking a night off being a mom at home, going out, flirting and having fun. Focus on getting a balanced and varied schedule that includes a couple of dates on the calendar.

This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. YOU are the Best!! When we first started talking he told me that he would be leaving his job soon and not sure what his next move will be. We met and instantly hit it off. My gut is leading me to believe this could be something special. Do you think that a modification of this could be good to tell him?

Jenny, I tried putting myself in your shoes. I think a modification of this would be good. I accepted him back over the phone and am now confused and feel I let him off a bit easy. The concept works in a lot of ways. I can relate to the whole book! Of all the dating advice out there and as we both know, there are tons! How do you know when the timing is right to have that conversation about being committed?

What happened to simple and fun? Thank you for sharing all of your amazing advice on relationships! You are entrepreneurial and great at selling your products and courses.

Women making the right choices and adhering, stating their high values. There is an greater emphasis on social and emotional development in schools now, especially the more inclusive, diverse and forward thinking ones. Could your work be part of the curriculum in some way.

We currently have a huge problem with violence and mal-treatment of girls and women today, largely not well handled or secret. The girls and women affected not only get into undesirable relationships but may become pregnant and have shattered lives, some being killed. I love this because I have commented something similar Xo. Great thoughts and very true — perfect preventative services. The softness of the light, the chocolaty background. The sharp clarity of focus on Matthew.

The way the rich, dull colors make you fully aware of his eyes looking like a perfect shade of river jade; the fleshy pinkness of his mouth. So clear, you can almost feel the fuzzy stubble beard. Your advice is very thorough, analytical, and straight to the point…none of that watered-down, wishy-washy nonsense…. I have a person in mind and this is the situation we are currently experiencing. I had decided tti tell him to figure out what he wanted.

And this is the perfect way to say exactly what I wanted him to know, conveying my standards as well as show that I still care about him. Thank you so much!!!! I truly appreciate these topics as well, as life strategies.

Warmest Regard, Shev XX. If we already responded …mmmm… reacted? Or is our value permanently begged, cried, and yelled away? I wanted to reach out and give you your space on a positive note, because I want you to be happy because you deserve it.

Understanding that you are thinking over us being exclusive, I will move on as well. I only want your happiness and I respect your opinions more than anything. But this also reminds me of one person who I really liked who never called me back.

Thanks for this — comes so timely, as I am feeling so manipulated by a guy whom I am dating for 3 months now, but never found the time to spend a weekend with me, always either travelling, or finding excuses…when I try to be more specific, he usually tells me how much he supports me, or how much he appreciate me, adores me, etc.

There are so many emotional games and strings that people can pull and games they can try to play. I experienced it recently and it is not healthy. Someone who cares for you will make time for you. I have experienced this recently and it is not healthy. Someone who cares about you will make time for you. Matthew, this was perfect. I am actually going through this right now.

I have been dating this guy since July, and a couple of weeks ago he tells he isnt ready for a relationship. He wants to work on himself and become better. He told me he knew that is what he wanted before he started dating me, but he couldnt help it because he liked me.

I told him that I did deserve someone who didnt have to question about being with me. So at this point, Idk if I should reiterate what you have said in this video because we both are acting the same. Bc he still calls and texts, etc. If you have any advice on this I would appreciate it.

Thank you for always helping me out! When you have feelings, sure you want to be loving and it feels good to be loving. I really need you to keep busy and marinate on what he texts you or wait to call him back. Daydream about what you will say if you must. But wait, that way you can also make what you say really delicious. Then all of this together just might make him want more time with you and he might desperately want the honor or being your boyfriend.

And if someone else asks you out, please do go on a date. Or mention that other guys are asking you out, what should you do, should that happen. That was one of the most brilliant videos ever, straight to the point. These words are going to knock off the self confidence of any player, commitmentphobic or emotionally unaivalable guys and for the guys who are good, but unsure, they will take as the girl has already bumped them, unless they change their behaviour.

Hi, my relationship is complicated…. Now before him I was and still is an independent woman I work two jobs with a home of my own a car with a son…I left my home and moved in with him my son who was 20 at the time stayed in my home and kept it up and I continued to make sure my home was in order. He loves me and I love him is he scared or what…..

I always find your advice to be spot on. It really just comes down to not being a good fit for each other. Thank you for helping us better relate to people, and see our situations with a clear head, rather than just fly around in an emotional tizzy all the time. Thank you so much for this piece on being able to walk away!! I am a divorced 45 yr old with an 8yr old daughter and I have sole custody.

He just has a horrible mental illness, lives in a home now and is unable to work. It is a really sad story… But I went to counseling for many years and got back to a happier place!! I met a great guy… Was doing some landscaping on my yard… And we went to high school together just never knew each other.

His wife has been on her own since she was 16… Has no family or friends. His life is her life. We spent more time together.. We fell deeply in love. He ended up going to counseling with her just to make sure this is what he wanted, to leave and move on. They sat their family down, explained they were separating… Etc. I was so happy … Never felt this kind of love in my life… To hear how much he loved me… And said he wanted to take care of me… Made me feel over the moon!!

He eventually moved out… But was not living in a nice place… So he moved back home into a spare bedroom.. My New Years resolution was just to cut all ties with him. I am still crazy in love with him but this kind of relationship only makes me cry and get mad. He said he hates the idea of me dating. But can you tell me… Why would a guy get so far and then stop??

The better question is why would you put up with this kind of relationship? Nothing good ever comes from dating a married man. Move on with your life. I have a question: Is it possible that there are just times when the heart is closed and numb and there is no possibility for anyone to make that connection? But after a couple of weeks he started messaging me again, asking to see me. But be prepared to walk away and give him space again. I was in a relationship with a guy for over a year.

We were committed to each other, in love, talked about the future. It was literally out of nowhere, with no warning signs. That was 11 months ago. Are there key milestones to look for to say: What do with a man that keeps breaking up with me? Even when he knew I started trying to move on and started seeing other people he ended up getting me back… Is there any way around this viscous cycle?

I really care about him and he has problems with having consistent work as he is a contractor and a family who take advantage if him financially. Your relationship does not sound healthy.

Maybe you want to step away from this situation and take a break and time for yourself. It just so happens that I have been thinking about this subject all weekend. My guy is loving and caring but he has a demanding job and wants to see me the minimum amount as his alone time in his house is very import to him. One other point that seems to be coming to a head is what I call the front line. When growing up your front line is your parents and your siblings. At adult hood most people move on and create their own front line, which is usually a partner and possibly children.

The parents and siblings naturally move to the second line. But what I have found is that some people have difficulty making that move.

The front line is still the parents even if they marry and have children, or they can never commit fully to a new partner and never hold down a relationship. The second is my current guy, the first is my ex husband. I hope that using your technique I may be able to get my current man to think about things and make his decision.

Then either I can get closer to being with a guy him, or someone else who is willing to give me the sort of commitment I want to give I return. Does he play the drums or is there a rock band in your garage ;. Regarding your ex, your ex is like my ex 1 and ex 2.

The hate is negative energy directed towards me, which would eventually have completely broken my spirit. I am sorry that you might have had the same experience. I think freedom is more valuable than being with any such man, because you become part of his family too — and there are people who end up committing suicide or experiencing domestic violence on the extreme end of such cases.

Every person has a bright light shining inside of them, and you should try to be around people who encourage you to glow. If someone diminishes your shine, then protect yourself and remove yourself from negative situations and people. The same person came to help from Triple-A both times.

Always glow, no matter what is happening in your romantic life. How do you still behave around that person? Do you try to distance yourself, be less flirty or just be polite? Or you keep behaving in the same way? What the girls do not see that under layer that happy bubbly guy,he just been through alot in his life. And not all men or woman want to do that because its hurt,time consuming, it does need courage to do that.

And its takes a big heart to understand that this something u cant push and rush. Dear Matt your video is a blessing for all women who are in this situation.

I think speaking or writing these words are the best choice you have in order to handle the situation. Cry if you have to,mourn and then speak those words to him. It empowers you because you will show him you are mature enough to handle this emotional situation. He will later on think back and if not come back to you, he will respect you for that. And respect is the basis for a new beginning. I felt high value and looked relaxed. While I do believe — and have seen proof — that the advice and programs I provide can help you improve your love life , please understand that not everyone will experience the exact same results.

To get the best results, you must use the advice I give you. Every person is an individual and every situation is unique so no single piece of advice will work for everyone at every time.

But I can tell you that if you read the advice and continually apply it in your life, your chances of success increase dramatically. Surely men know how to kiss a woman right? I mean, we guys fantasize on a daily basis about grabbing All that matters is this…what does it mean for you? Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published.

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March 12, at 6: February 22, at 9: Thank you so much for this video. Do I try to contact him and if so can I use what Matt says to do in the video? February 18, at 5: February 22, at 7: If you have any insight, i would appreciate and thank you: Is this a way to show me that he actually is not interested in doing this anymore? If so, why keep texting? Why would you ask him that even once, let alone twice?

Unless he indicated that the incident freaked him out enough to stop seeing you, there was no need to bring it back up and act insecure about it.

However, your insecurities are causing him to back off. Your reply gave me a rude awakening. I think I actually developed feelings with him during this time and so I kind of assume that we have to see each other at some sort of regularity. We are not even in the same place and have to travel to see each other, which he said is another reason for him to doubt whether to meet up or not.

I think differently, he is just fwb. He is not your boyfriend and what happened and how he treated you forced him into boyfriend actions, which was OK to freak him out. The issue is you have feelings, and it does not seem he does as well, or is concerned about them. You are now in an untenable fwb situation, so you need to either: Just assume fwb B. Discuss if something more is possible.

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Are you a man looking for a local woman for casual encounters? If you would like to have a one night stand, or regular discreet pleasure with a local lady, have a browse through the ads offered in the Women Looking for Men category. “I’m just not ready to be exclusive with anyone ”There’s no good way to hear that sentence from a guy’s mouth. Maybe he’s focusing on his career. Maybe he’s travelling the world this year and won’t have time for a relationship. Hi! So I need some advice, I don’t know what to do concerning a guy I was talking to. We were going on different dates and he was talking about relationships and then a few days later he tells me that he’s not looking for a relationship and that he’s sorry he lead me on.