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Long for a real friend I long for a connection, something deeper then just throwing around the like word to someone and sexually pleasing them. Libido w4m I am willing to bet you would love the kind of light hearted, no strings attached fun I'm considering about, hmm. If you can't host I can get a room. -I would bring her flowers on the right occasions or just sometimes to surprise her, I like shoping for her sometimes and bringing little gifts just because she is my one and only. Non-traditional LTR (wanna be spoiled. I'm a laid back guy that has a passion for jazz concerts,basketball,and eating seafood.

You guys don't know what you're missing. My cooter got punished last night. It's almost 10 and it feels like his cock is still pounding my hole. I really wish every gay man could experience that just once. I am laying in bed still luxuriating in the feeling. Its gonna be a good Sunday. Love to you all. It is not designed for that, OP. I've never understood people who are into anal. I agree with R5. It damages your anus and with the trouble I already have with hemmoroids, no way am I going to get damaged further.

I do know what I'm missing. Tried it a few times. Disliked it more than I liked it. Plus there's all the prep and lub and condoms and If a guy wants me to fuck him, I'm fine with that too as long as there are lube and condoms, and he's "clean". Plus, quite frankly, my last few encounters have been with guys who have been, how should I say, not very clean. If you don't want to have anal sex, fine. Just don't be smug about it and make it a crusade. R14 apparently doesn't get that it is OP who is making it into a crusade.

Why does he have to make such a stupid post in the first place? How common is it for a condom to come out totally covered in crap? Maybe you should see someone about your intimacy issues. Just count me as another gay man who is not into anal sex. Absolute bullshit that people who never got fucked never got AIDS. Stop the lies, you fools. AIDS does not distinguish between tops and bottoms; plenty of stuff can find its way up your urethra when your dick is inside of someone; etc.

I know r15, one of the last guys I fucked wasn't cleaned and it smelled like I was fucking a baby's diaper. This thread has taken an interesting turn. I think OP was talking about guys who are not into anal as bottoms, but most of the responses have been from tops. By definition if you are not into topping a guy, then doesn't that mean you are not a top? I feel like I am really missing out on something. In my early gay days, I think it was a psychological thing, not being comfortable being gay, so I never "opened up" to bottoming.

It never felt good to me. The magic prostate thing never occurred. At best it was just bearable. I'm a top but didn't bother with anal for a while. If you are above a certain size the condom just chokes your erection.

Then I started having bottoms use the female condoms and it's great. Also eliminates a lot of the "clean" issues. All the mess is left for the bottom to worry about and that's the way it should be.

Being clean is very important to me. I eat a high fiber diet, which means everything comes out. So clean up for me is wiping up with a damp washcloth. I don't event have to douche. My hole is always clean and anal ready.

I've been getting fucked since I was 14, I am dreading the day when I'm going to be too old to bottom. I've got about 8 more years. Shut the fuck up OP! I had a guy last night Am I the only one who thought OP was a straight female gloating that she had a pussy and gay men didn't? You were probably mislead by the word cooter. But no, it's a guy who had his hole pounded and thinks that those who don't have anal sex would change their mind if they knew the bliss he experienced.

I've only bottomed a few times. I didn't get anything out of it. It was just mildly uncomfortable. The thought of fucking some guy's shitty hole makes me go soft. I would think by the time I'm , it would be time to hang up the old hat on bottoming. How does one clean themselves out? I just can't imagine everyone buying douches every time they want to have sex. Please, don't think an anus is a pussy.

I am a woman and I have had anal sex. The sensations are totally different I'm not talking about climaxing. A vagina is really an extraordinary thing sensation-wise so unlike the anus, which is not really made for "entrance". One of the things that did lead to the rapid spread of AIDS in the 's was the large increase in anal sex in the 's and during the Sexual Revolution. But once anal sex become popularized, it lead to a whole set of problems. That's one of the reasons I believe in sticking to oral.

For those of you who don't eat a high fiber diet or don't want to change your diet you should purchase some unprocessed wheat or oat bran. I get mine in the grocery store. One big heaping serving spoon full before or right after each meal with a full glass of water - very important and you'll see the very next day what it can do for you.

You'll never feel so cleaned out in your life. Please shut up r58, you have no idea what you're talking about. Not only that you're being offensive. I find anal sex to be unsexy and rimming to be disgusting. My friends who were obsessed with anal sex died. Why engage in sex that smells like shit because it involves shit, provides little pleasure, often causes pain and requires the use of a condom? Give me a hot sensual guy who likes rubbing, sucking and getting sucked without adding turds into the mix.

Oh man, there is nothing like anal sex. Especially with a really good water based lube. Not the kind you buy in the drgu store. If you buy a really heavy water-based lube - prepare to get hammered like never before and it feels awesome.

I find it troubling the number of gay men posting in this thread who are anti-anal. For those of you who tried it and who have experienced problems with it, like unclean guys, obviously make a habit of hooking up with slags. Anal sex with the right guy or guys is one of the most amazing things you will ever do. Another guy here who really dislikes anal. Yes, when I've been fucked extremely rare , I went all out and enjoyed it enough, but I prepped, etc.

And just got into it. Yet getting head is still better. And I have a great dick. And I've fucked a lot as a top. Most guys think I'm a top, and want me to fuck them but I agree, if it smells rank, looks rank, dick goes soft. Mutual oral is best.

Facials, even a clean rimming. In the end, it's still an asshole. There is nothing anatomical about a rectum that makes it unidirectional. Millions get colonoscopies every year with no damage to their anatomy.

Even young children can pass massive poops. So you don't have to be such a big Mary about getting fucked by someone's boner. Those with timid butts should spend some private masturbation time playing with a not-too-big dildo with or without vibration and learn the joys of sexual climax with something in your butt.

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Which all means you just simply need to practice. It is likely your woman will appreciate you more once she dons a strap-on and fucks you — she will realize that the grace, strength, endurance and balance required to fuck is significant. Pegging is not for every man.

Best to check with a doctor if you have concerns in this area. Pegging done correctly should not be painful. Here is a map for you. Take a good look at it. The man should find a position that is comfortable for him.

Face down with a couple of pillows under his hips is usually a good one. She sits on the bed behind him and uses her finger gloved if preferred. If she has long fingernails fill the finger ends of a latex glove with cotton balls and then put on gloves before you begin. Anal exploration and long nails do not mix!

You want to avoid tearing or scratching the rectal lining at all costs. I like to use my middle finger, because it is the longest and the prostate can be difficult to reach sometimes. Insert your finger about 2 inches and press downward toward his belly. Explore and get feedback about which spot feels the best. The more turned on he is, the more his prostate swells and can be located.

Like the G-spot, sometimes men have to sort of get used to feeling pleasure in that spot…it takes a while to wake it up. Using your finger in the beginning is easier than using a toy. Once you know where the prostate is, positioning and angles of strap-ons and toys is easier to picture. Sorry guys, but there is no magic formula for finding a woman to peg you.

Read more about this here. If you have a partner and are trying to find a way to introduce her to the concept of pegging, I recorded a podcast exactly for that purpose.

The best time for her to listen to it is after you have introduced the basic concept to her, because it addresses all her potential fears, concerns and misconceptions. Please be sure to listen to this podcast FIRST, because only you can decide if it is right for your partner. Podcast — For the Ladies.

The truth of the situation is that if you are a woman who loves pegging…you actually have your pick from a significantly large group of men who are looking for a woman just like you.

You will not have to look far. In fact it may be more difficult to find a man who will approach you politely and respectfully when contacting you.

There is something about the prospect of a woman with a strap-on that can turn reasonable men into crude dudes. The better ones will keep their enthusiasm in check and approach you with manners and style…as a person instead of a fetish delivery service. Many men do find that they feel somewhat submissive because the act of receiving pegging requires openness and vulnerability. But there is no rule that men must be submissive, nor is there any likelihood that a man will suddenly become effeminate just because he gets pegged.

Many women who are interested in pegging have dominant traits, but it is not necessary to be dominant. For a woman, pegging requires being the one to run the fuck, the active and giving role. Pegging can be a close, intimate and very sensual act between loving partners. There is really no need to look at it any way other than that. If you want to put your own particular kinky spin on it, then by all means go ahead, but that is entirely optional.

It can be a turn-on. But it can also freak you out a little. Take a deep breath and go with it. The rewards are extraordinary. Always keep in communication with your partner. When trying something new sexually, it is good to have a debriefing after sex to talk about what you enjoyed, what worked, what felt weird…everything. Builds great sex partners and increases intimacy to do this…and not just with pegging!

Help me make this section more complete. Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house, not a sex toy was stirring; we were still making out. Then, what to my wondering eyes should appear? My black leather harness with the dildo for his rear.

Not a word did I utter, to spoil our game. My boy whistled, and shouted, and called me cute names! Now, listen my Vixen! I want you to fuck me, with unfeigned conviction! Up against the wall! Put me in thrall! So off to the bedroom night stand I flew, and obtained a large bottle of Sliquid Silk lube. He pressed against me, from his head to his foot.

His eyes — how they twinkled! His ass how it bounced! So I fucked him soundly, like a runaway train. Podcast is going to be comprised solely of stories and offerings from the giving side of the pegging equation. Tell us all the things you love about pegging… Tell us the story of your favorite pegging encounter… Tell us about your first time… Tell us about your last time… Tell us about a funny time, or an embarrassing time… Tell us about your favorite pegging fantasy….

You need to get your stories in by Saturday, November 11th to have them included in this podcast. You can write me at ruby peggingparadise.

I recently dove into studying deep insertions and why they feel so good to some men. Listen to the podcast here. Why are so many people talking about it? Why would anyone want to do it? You might be surprised to discover the truth behind some of the fears and assumptions.

First, think about it…A sexual act that involves a man and a woman is by definition not gay. If your partner has been happily fucking you and giving you oral sex for years, he is certainly not gay. Here is another way to look at it. The area of your body that you enjoy having stimulated has absolutely no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating. Read that twice if you need to.

There is an unfortunate assumption that men who enjoy anal stimulation or penetration must, by default, want sex with their own gender. And while there are indeed some men who are bisexual and enjoy sex with men as well as woman, there are also many, many men who are totally straight and love receiving ass play. Many women have a fear that if they peg their man, he will leave them and run off in search of real cock.

If this were true, then a lesbian woman who fucks her lover with a strap-on would turn her straight, right? See how the logic breaks down? The more likely result of fucking your man with a strap-on, is that you will send him to the moon with pleasure, and deepen the intimacy that you share with him.

Anal penetration never has to involve pain. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong, like going too fast, or using too big of a toy, or not using enough lube the most common mistakes.

Not only is pegging not painful, it has the capacity to bring amazing amounts of pleasure to your partner! His prostate is much like your G-spot. Combined prostate and penile stimulation often result in an orgasm that men describe as ten times more powerful than a regular orgasm!

There is no getting around the reality that pegging takes place in the same area of the body that handles waste elimination, to put it delicately. To depart from delicacy, every once in a while shit happens.

If the thought of a small mess freaks you out, pegging may not be for you. The occasional messes that do occur are typically very minimal.

Are you interested in giving and receiving more sexual pleasure? Then pegging would be a great thing to try. For some people, all sex toys are not natural. For others, they would never bring whipped cream and chocolate sauce into the bedroom to add to their sexual experience. If you try pegging and love it, you will be so glad you tried it! If someone told me there was a way I could have orgasms 10 times more powerful than any orgasm I have ever had, I would find it difficult to pass that up.

If you have watched pegging porn, I can see how you would assume this. While it is true that some couples who enjoy pegging also enjoy one or more of these activities, they are by no means a requirement for the experience. Pegging can simply be one more way to make sweet, intimate love with your partner. There is no rule that says when you strap on a fake cock, you are no longer feminine. You can be as feminine or not feminine as you like while pegging. Some women might be happy to know that there are ultra-feminine harnesses available, some of which have sexy garters attached.

There is nothing in pegging that says you must do it a certain way. You and your partner get to choose what feels right to you. Why would men want to experience this? Because it gives them a lot of pleasure! Men have a prostate gland, which is responsible for manufacturing fluid that helps carry the sperm out of the body. Stimulation of the prostate gland is indeed quite pleasurable for most men.

The prostate gland is most easily accessed through the anus. Besides the pleasure aspect, pegging can be good for the prostate. Stimulation of the prostate gland, from anal play or pegging, helps keep the prostate healthy. Regular prostate massage can help avoid swollen prostate. It can also help relieve and sometimes eliminate the symptoms of swollen prostate BPH. We are not talking about just a little bit of pleasure, here. Again, most men who have experienced an orgasm resulting from a combination of prostate and penile stimulation describe it as roughly 10 times more powerful than a normal orgasm.

In addition, some men can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone, with no penile stimulation. Has your partner ever been jealous of your multiple orgasms? Try pegging and perhaps he can enjoy them, too! Women enjoy pegging for a variety of reasons. The taboo aspect can be very hot. Some enjoy the experience of switching roles and running the show; they relish the power and control.

Some enjoy giving their partner remarkable levels of pleasure, making them squirm and moan. Harnesses and dildos offer a wide variety of clitoral stimulation and G-spot stimulation to help women attain orgasm while fucking their partner.

Some women orgasm easily from pegging because the very idea of it excites them so much. Think about it — do you really know what your partner experiences when you have sex? You will when you try pegging! And so will your partner. You can discover how fucking a partner requires strength, endurance, grace, balance and multi-tasking. Your partner can experience how important foreplay is, how every night is perhaps not a penetration night and the vulnerability required when allowing penetration.

Pegging involves role reversal, heightened intimacy, and the thrill of breaking taboos. Pegging can be the totally hot go-to that you enjoy on rare occasions, or the meat and potatoes of your sex life! Sure, we all dream of those seminal moments of exploring our most powerful fantasy — Pegging. Whichever side of the strap-on that you are on, the very first step after confirming consensual interest and willingness to explore with your partner, is learning the cardinal rules of safe pegging.

If you have been watching porn, please correct any misconceptions you may have that spit is lube. A good quality, body-safe, non-toxic lube is essential for pleasurable pegging. Use more than you think you need. Givers, when you are pegging for a while, periodically add more lube to keep things sliding smoothly.

Pegging sessions can go longer with sufficient lube. Conversely, they can be cut short with insufficient lube, because that can result in too much friction and a sore ass. Clean fingers with well-trimmed nails are great with gloves or without , but no fingers with long nails should ever go in an ass, Use a toy instead, like a butt plug. All anal-safe toys have a flared base for safety.

Small vibrators or thin dildos without a flared base can go up into the colon and become irretrievable — necessitating a trip to the ER for removal. No one wants that! Least of all the ER doctors. Flared bases prevent this. No random household items, please! There are lubes sold that tout ease of anal penetration because they have numbing agents in them, often Lidocaine.

Please do not ever use these for pegging! Pain is an indicator that you are going too fast, using something too large, not using enough lube or you have not properly relaxed. If you eliminate the indicator of pain, it is much easier to cause an injury such as an anal tear without even knowing it.

Also — please moderate your use of other more common numbing agents such as alcohol or drugs. If you have already indulged past that point — skip the pegging and wait for another time. When I say take it slow, I really mean take it slow! I mean play with that asshole with your fingers, tongue if you are into rimming or smaller toys for a decently long time — at least 15 minutes. Take it so slow that the receiver is backing up and asking you for it. Most of us who have ventured into the land of internet porn have seen clips of huge anal penetrations.

Sure — those videos confirm they are possible. Past a certain point, yes. What is the limit? That will differ according to who you ask. The largest toy I use is 2. But these toys take a lot of time, even months or years, to work up to. The point here is that if you are just starting out pegging, and perhaps just starting out with anal penetration, start small!

You may have been watching porn clips with huge toys that make your mouth water with anticipation, but that is not where one begins their pegging journey. Unless you are experienced with anal play, a good starter size is 1 — 1.

Start small and work up to larger toys as you become accustomed to the smaller ones. So those are the basics! Following these safety rules will decrease the incidence of injury dramatically. And remember, despite your best efforts, sometimes even when you follow all the rules, asses decide not to cooperate. I like to say that asses have personalities, and some nights are just not ass nights. Respect that when it happens and reschedule the pegging or anal play for another time.

Approaching your partner to be a giver. Approaching your partner to be a receiver. Podcast for the givers — eases fears and corrects misconceptions. One thing I have been hearing about over and over lately is couples who rush through the period of time between getting excited about trying out pegging, and the first time the actually do it.

There is so much to learn and so much to enjoy during that space of time! Not only will you really miss out if you rush through it, your initial experience with pegging might be more awkward and difficult as a result. If I could give lovers a timeline to follow from when they share that first exciting moment of embracing the concept of pegging, feeling all that eagerness to explore, to the actual moment of insertion, it would look something like this….

Inquiring minds want to know, including your partners, beginners, other women who peg, and their partners! I love to give pleasure. We are all special snowflakes when it comes to our sexuality.

Some women like me focus on giving pleasure. Others enjoy pegging men for their own pleasure, not caring about his. Some women are adept at the multi-tasking that men usually perform during PIV, and they can get themselves and their partner off. Some women come easily while pegging.

All of this depends on responsiveness of the participants, toys, technique, positions, and many other things. Some women can get off just from the pressure of the base of the dildo against their clitoris. Of course this requires a good fitting harness that will securely hold the dildo low enough to cover the vulva and stimulate the clit. Some women get off easily because the thought of what they are doing is just so fucking hot.

Some women need a Magic Wand level of clitoral stimulation to get off, and struggle to orgasm while pegging. So what are some of the factors that provide her pleasure? The various sizes and shapes of bulbs the end that goes in her will vary in comfort for each woman.

There is no one size fits all. Double ended dildos can offer excellent G-spot stimulation. Although there is not a lot of in and out thrusting motion from the bulb end that fits inside her, there is definitely some movement as well as excellent pressure when fucking him.

When that pressure hits the G-Spot just right, it feels amazing! For women who orgasm more easily from clitoral stimulation or a combination of both clitoral and G-Spot the best double with a vibe option is the Fuze Tango , with the We-Vibe Tango Mini Vibe.

Rumbly and not buzzy, this mini vibe is the strongest, rechargeable, and waterproof. It has 8 different vibe choices three speeds and 5 patterns. Read more about that here: The Truth About Strapless Strap-ons. Also, many women find that using a double to begin with is difficult, because they need to learn how to fuck first. The learning curve can feel pretty steep for beginners. Of course practicing and getting good at it is quite fun! The best clitoral vibe option for a single flare-base dildo is also made by Fuze what can I say, those Canadians have it down.

Mutual oral is best. Facials, even a clean rimming. In the end, it's still an asshole. There is nothing anatomical about a rectum that makes it unidirectional. Millions get colonoscopies every year with no damage to their anatomy. Even young children can pass massive poops. So you don't have to be such a big Mary about getting fucked by someone's boner. Those with timid butts should spend some private masturbation time playing with a not-too-big dildo with or without vibration and learn the joys of sexual climax with something in your butt.

Your butt sphincter contracts rhythmically with each squirt. And if it has something to contract against, your orgasm is multiplied in intensity. This is not the first time I've said this here and I can't believe I have to do this primer on butt sex to a group of gay men for chrissake! I'm really into submission so love the feeling of submittting to the top's dick-even if it hurts.

Fortunately right now I have a top who loves making me submit. Here is what I don't get. Why are there so many on here who can't enjoy it and let it go at that?

Why is it so important to you, OP, and the rest of you who post this issue, repeatedly, that every gay man on the planet engage in anal? Because it's fun and we enjoy discussing it. Therefore, it turns me off royally. That's not why I'm into guys. If I wanted a woman, I'd have one. You're demanding all gay men bottom, yet you're botching that someone who is calling you out for bullying other gay men is a "mean girl.

Anuses smell worse than Vaginas. I mean, between all of the pro republican posts and the anti- anal sex posts, I thought I may have stumbled into theclub. I'm meh on it.

I 'submit' a few times a year, that's my limit. As for topping, it's a lot of hard work with not much more reward than a wank. Plus I always think, with the 1 or 2 days of irregular poo that follows when you don't douche because lord knows douching is literally a pain in the arse, is it really worth it?

This is probably why I limit it to a few times a year or less. I can't fathom gay men that can submit to a pounding more than once a week. Even that seems excessive to me.

I took a trick home one night a few months ago. We fooled around and then he wanted to fuck me. I don't normally like anal, and I try never to bottom with someone I just meet in a bar I wait until I get to know them a little bit.

When I said no, we both finished. On the way out he snottily asks me, "what did you think we were going to do here? A bit precious for my taste. He could have offered to take it himself, but I guess that wasn't on the table. I think it's just not worth the effort when oral and mutual jo and kissing and stroking etc are just as HOT.

Saving it for actual bfs is a good idea not just for safety but also because of the downsides. When you really like the guy those are easy to overlook. And if you can overlook them, it's awesome. It's fine if a guy isn't into anal - more power to him. But I'd get bored with him pretty quickly. I don't feel complete until I'm fucked. If that makes me a big ole nelly girl, then big fucking deal. People who aren't into anal are weird.

How many times a week are your guys douching? It's not good for the elasticity of your sphincter to do it a lot--you will end up incontinent if your a total bottom. It's like cocaine--try it twice to see what it's like and then never do it again. R, I have met bossy bottom sluts who can pick up a key with their sphincters and tell you make, if not also model. We used to have the anal kugel troll who would direct you to a site teahing you how to strengthen your sphincter.

Stop the violence against women. I tried topping and bottoming and I never really enjoyed it. Bottoming is not so much that it hurts, it's that I don't feel much that way, never had the "mind-blowing orgasms" you talk about here. I guess there must be something wrong with my anatomy? OP just because you like getting fucked doesn't mean everybody likes getting fucked.

One would think gay people - who have had to fight for the legitimacy of their sexual orientation in an overwhelmingly straight world which is a fight for the understanding that people have different sexual interests - would be the first to understand the diversity of sexual tastes. But then one comes to DL and realizes that there are a shitload of gay people lack empathy just like straight people.

Or maybe it's just that gay people are just as much the product of the dumbing down that pop culture has created. I don't know but I"m sick of it. Why do some bottoms not get hard, and is that an indication of their dissatisfaction with the top? I like anal, it just takes a LONG time for my prostate to get stimulated enough to give me a really good orgasm.

Most of the time Id rather just have my hole massaged and fingered, its a really good sensation and not so much work. I haven't bottomed for twenty years or so. There's a guy in my area adamfordadam hookup who wants to bone me. He has a big uncut dick. My birthday is soon and I am thinking about letting him have his way with me. You can massage a prostate from outside by pressing gently on the perineum while you are giving a bj or a handjob. Just finished reading "Secret Historian".

Anal is actually a recent phenonemon in gay life, brought on by the advent of poppers and other mind-bending drugs that loosened the inhibitions in places like Frisco and NYC in the s. Prior to that gay men mostly did oral and j. Anal is more frequent nowadays than ever before in History. John Dean and Dr. David Delvin, "in absolute numbers, it is hypothesized that more heterosexual couples have anal sex than homosexual couples".

By the s in the United Kingdom, it was thought that about fifteen percent of male homosexuals practiced the method. Anal sex in history just was not practiced in great numbers. It is still mostly a western practice, with the most extensive studies on recent anal stats with gay men being conducted on western culture participants. I will concede that the practice is spreading but that is within the last years.

I only do it with my ex BF. As a man that loves and is sexually attracted to other men, I have to say i hate taking on the label gay. And almost every single one of you here as only reaffirmed why i hate to be labeled gay. I hate anal, its deplorable, degrading, and it's more pain than it's worth.

I have tried it, both bottoming and topping, and either way I can't stand it. Not only does it cost too much time, but it's a turn off. What is supposed to be so sexually appealing about sticking your dick in someone's asshole anyway? Why is this the chosen that's right, i said chosen, because this is a choice sexual preference of gay men? I'll tell you why.

Because gay men are too scared and wimpy to actually STOP mirroring heteros. Some of you don't realize that you can be gay and enjoy oral, mutual masturbation, frottage or whatever it's called.

Oh no, you have to throw in something disgusting, like fisting and rimming and anal fucking. Why the hell is that entertaining to the most of you anyway? If you're going to shove your hand up a hole, or your tongue up a hole, or your dick up a hole, you had might as well close your eyes and fuck a chick.

And that's exactly what you're trying to do with another guy: Because you're too immature and stupid to realize that every time you fuck another guy up the ass you're mirroring straight sex.

Now, i'm not trying to sound like that crazed guy Bill Weintraub, because we all know he fell off a limb or two, but he does make some good and valid points: And that is why i do not take the label gay. Because with the label gay come the labels of anal sex, fisting, rimming, being a ball-less pansy, and being scared shitless to take a stand and be a MAN. But most of you won't see that, and in fact a lot of you will probably try to kill everything I just said in order to preserve that ingrained anal sex idea.

But i am here to tell you, guys who love guys who aren't into anal are not fucked up. We just don't like to treat other guys like they're women, because they're not. Honestly i don't even know why i put this up, because its going to fall on deaf ears. Most of you have already come to the mindset that anal is appealing, and even pleasurable, when you honestly know it's not.

But that's okay, to each his own i guess, but in the end, when you are lying in bed dying of AIDS because you couldn't keep from bottoming or topping another guy, I can say now that I warned you all. Greeks and Romans, who we know accepted homosexuality in their societies, despised anal sex. Anal sex was a form of degrading rape in their society. So those of you that claim butt sex has been around since the beginning of time, you're right.

And how dare ALL of you that say all gay men need to try anal even spurt those words forth. Shame on all of you. Guess what, its counterproductive. Because no one is going to want to support the GLBT community when all they focus on is shit. And that is all i have to say. This whole thread just depresses me more than I already am. Some of y'all are just so damn hateful and rude. I resent being called an "uptight priss" because I'm not into anal.

Unlike the ridiculous GOY set, I don't look down on people who enjoy anal. Those of us who aren't into it would really appreciate it if the rest of you would open your minds a little bit! For me it has nothing to do with intimacy issues I simply cannot understand why some of you feel that anal sex is the ONLY way to be completely intimate with someone.

Frankly, your opinions on the subject are not all that different from homophobic idiots. You won't open your minds! I struggle with substance abuse issues because of terrible things that have been said to me by guys who had a narrow minded view of my disliking anal.

Why, WHY are you so mean?! What purpose does it serve? Does it make you feel better to belittle others? For the love of God, stop and think before you speak. I've tried it and it hurts like hell. Anuses are for exit only. Anything that takes that much work to get up into, and then hurts when something is in it, is SO not worth the trouble. I tried it a few times and it hurt like hell and really did nothing for me.

But I do love to fuck a tight hole. I LOVE bottoms who love to bottom. Admire them a great deal too, because I can't do it. A really nice bottom man is like a fine violin to me, and I so enjoy the music. For an hour or more if they can. Twice if they're willing.

My favorite thing is going twice when I can without pulling out in between. Kind of fast and furious the first time, then long and languorously the second. Also and, sadly, you can't do this anymore, I like to pull halfway out when I cum, and I do cum prodigiously, and spray the asshole walls. And yes, it IS an asshole and don't forget it. That's what makes it so bad, bad, bad and wonderful.

Yep There is nothing like beating the bottoms ass in, and just as he thinks you can get any deeper, you go balls deep and gut that last couple of inches really hard for the grand finale. Thats is when he really starts screaming like a bitch in heat, and his hole gets really tight on my dick as he cums all over himself.

Wonder why our maker gave men that highly sensitive prostate gland? That walnut shaped gland that gets stimulated from the anus would otherwise go u chartered. How often can someone bottom without it doing any damage?

Once every two weeks? Or does it depend on how big the top is? So if you don't like it, fine. There are millions of us who do enjoy it.

Anal sex and rimming is pretty dangerous and extremely unhealthy. You can get parasites from the anus. The anus is to release the human waste and bacteria. Had a threesome last weekend. Took turns fucking the shit out of the bottom. To be honest anal sex is really overrated. Though I came inside the guy I'd always prefer to ejaculate in his mouth and watch him slurp every drop of it like a hungry bitch.

R, darling, swallow a parasite. By all means, it's a free country. I'm completely aware I'm in the minority. Why is it so important for you to point that out?! I just want people to stop looking at me like I'm weird because of my sexual preference. If someone's into anal, that's their perogative, but I just want people to be respectful toward me.

I'm thinking I need to stick to male condoms, but I'm curious about them for anal. I'm concerned it may come out and the top could expose his semen to the anal area. Just had to add: If a man's asspussy isn't clean enough to eat, or you don't TRUST eating his ass, then don't bother fucking it! I don't get how some guys can just fuck total strangers often esp unprotected. It's their business but it's a little delusional. However I am not uptight about someone I like, esp inexperienced bottoms.

Let's also not be delusionally "anal" if you get a surprise- HELLO you are fucking a dude in his shithole. It's hard enough finding well-adjusted, sexy gay men.

It's a lot easier to clean an asshole than to find a man who isn't one. Not being homosexual,it's nothing I've done even in MY sex life,but I can see the beauty and divinity in it as much as in any other expression of sex.

Now enough of this silliness over what's dirty and what's not. Hooked up with this latin dude last night. He was a foot shorter than me with a big uncut cock. He took it like a champ. Told me he is a passionate bottom. He wouldnt take his mouth off mine the whole time.

The best anal I ever had was with a guy I barely felt inside me. He slipped it in without me even being aware of it, and when I did, I was amazed at what a "perfect fit" it was. Shortly after he exited, I had an orgasm that seemed to last for hours. He was able to touch something no one ever had.

I was walking around like I was on drugs. You wrote as much in your post. Good sex is messy. Great sex is downright filthy. You obviously have just had sex with a small "s". It's fine if some gay men are not into anal.

Some gay men are into rimming or fisting. Some are not into kissing. Do what you want and fuck what anybody else thinks. It's not their business. I'd be happy to find a hot guy who just enjoys kissing, making out, and maybe some mutual masturbation and lots of body contact. I don't really care all that much about oral or anal -- although I do like to get rimmed!

When there is moaning from the one who is getting penetrated in an anal scene, in some porn films, is it true that it's pain and not an orgasm? Someone said that is what it is. And sometimes when you don't hear anything, and the porn stars look bored, they are bored because there is no orgasm but just a feeling of being a bit uncomfortable, no sexual attraction, and they can't wait to get the scene over with. OP, glad you got fucked good.

That doesn't mean those who aren't into it don't know what they are missing. What's good for you may not be good for others. To all those saying they tried it and it was too painful, that was your personal experience. Bottoming isn't for everyone. It's for those of us who find more pleasure in it than pain.

I'm sure there are some masochistic bottoms, but most of us do it because it's fun and we love it. At the time of the posting, many, many years ago, OP was lying in bed, not laying in bed. He had been laying in bed. Every bottom I have ever known has become HIV positive eventually.

It's very dangerous, even with condoms. I'll have no other choice but to roll over and die. That is why I avoid it. Even with condoms it's too risky. There's no man on Earth worth getting that "gift" from. Besides, I tried it a few times in my teens and I really didn't like the feel of that thing sliding around up there. No, , I'm pretty sure "lay" is incorrect. One can always substitute "put" for "lay", and if you can't, then the word you seek is "lie", no?

I love anal too, it's always intense. I use butt toys a lot, and it's weird how my ass never really gets loosened up enough that it isn't always an intense experience.

I like to imagine my butt-hole belongs to a prized prison bitch who is fought over there are fist fights over the especially valued bitches , and constantly under attack. I'm not an insatiable bottom, but it does take a lot to sate me.

Hoping a condom was used. Gay guys that aren't into anal, do they not wipe well or something? I for one am grateful every day for Champs like OP who make it fun, satisfying and rewarding to enjoy all the lovely varieties of ass out there. I like to hold onto the buttcheeks with both hands so they know my dick is drilling in under it's own power with no guidance necessary.

And there's nothing like coming twice. I can't do it all the time, but I sincerely appreciate the approval when I do. While many population groups shared in this welcome decline in new HIV cases, one group — young gay or bisexual men — saw a percent increase over the time period. By the end of , this diagnosis rate fell to 16 cases per , population, a 33 percent drop. Men in the age group saw a significant 45 percent decline in cases between and However, case rates rose among men aged , , and 55 and older.

The most dramatic increase was seen in men — in , these teens and young men reported less than 3, HIV cases, but in , they reported 6, cases, a percent increase. The MSM age group with the highest number of cases in was the age group. The number of their reported cases — 7, — was virtually unchanged from For whites and Hispanics, the rates were 6. Both of these groups saw a decline of 30 percent or more since Yea, R20 I don't freak out if I pull out my cock and find it a bit unclean.

I'm a top and I know I'm fucking an ass. And like R44 if you eat properly there's no need to douche after you have a good bowel movement. There are no feces in the rectum until when you need to have a bowel movement. Feces are held in the colon, which starts with a near right angled bend after the rectum. The rectum is what is fucked during anal intercourse and since it's about 5 in long, and adding the inch or so of the anal canal, you have plenty of the straight final portion of the large intestine for the average cock to fuck.

My bottoms douche only if we plan to have long mega sex over a whole weekend. Repeated thrusting over and over is it getting hot in here? Otherwise there is no need to douche for regular anal fucking. My bfs don't douche every time when we are fucking almost every night.

It's rarely been a problem. So R you don't need to douche every time if you are having regular abalone sex. If fact it not to good to do this, especially deep douching, as it washes out the bacteria the gut has to help digestion. Now for the rare top that has a very large penis a douche may be called for. But I wouldn't know much about that I regret to say. Sounds like someone is trying to force an entry.

Quick, lets go down to take a look! In the Journal of Sexual Medicine, researchers from Indiana University and George Mason University surveyed nearly 25, gay and bisexual men in an effort to better understand how they experience sex. Did it involve kissing, cuddling, masturbation, oral sex, anal sex? Did it happen with a boyfriend, spouse, stranger, or sex worker? Was it in a car, a home, a club? Despite the popular perception, "sexual behaviors involving the anus were least common," researchers found.

By contrast, only 36 percent of men reporting receiving anal sex and 34 percent of men reporting giving it. Half of participants who engaged in anal sex employed a condom. The most common series of activities in the encounter—reported by 16 percent of men—involved "holding their partner romantically, kissing partner on mouth, solo masturbation, masturbating partner, masturbation by partner, and genital—genital contact. I said almost, R, but yeah regular nightly fucking is my style.

And thanks - you also sound like my kinda bottom: Why are people minimizing how disgusting shit actually is? No one wants to deal with adult shit. It's impossible to have spontaneous anal sex unless you have a strong stomach. If I didn't have a vagina id be all about oral. The thing is I love anal though. When prepped properly it feels great, but it's just too much work physically and mentally getting over pain aspect Sex should be fun and easy.

A lot of our bodily functions and what we do with our bodies can be quite gross if you think about it. Don't get me started on what you went through coming into this world! That's why we have Hallmark cards ;. Lousy kissers are usually lousy in the sack I've found. It's not painful if you use lube, but if you're too tense to enjoy it, well it isn't for everyone. Hope your vagina isn't too ripped to shreds and you did not shit yourself in the process. Enjoy the next two years of nipple mangling!

I guess it is something you much be inclined to like, and I, like most people, am not attracted to the act, so why bother. There's nothing I crave more in the whole world than a man who loves, loooooooooooooooves, to get fucked. Just being able to cause that much joy and pleasure is amazing.

Besides, I go could go on for days about how wonderful a great asshole feels. I love slutty bottoms that refer to their asses as pussies. I love when they tell me they want to have my babies. My goal when I fuck a guy is to try and give him a hands-free, anal orgasm. If you can do that to a guy, he'll be hooked for life. The very things you pearl clutchers are spouting off about here are precisely what make buttsex SO HOT minus the shit aspect--clean your holes well, boys, 'cause I'm going deep.

Sex isn't sanitary - so much so we overlook the underlying sick things that go on it. The exchanges of bacteria, the places were your genitalia goes, and overall hygiene of partners.

Studies have shown the gross factor we feel and think about in regular daily use - gets overloaded by the sexual drives. That is why sex itself isn't considered gross while we do it to varying degrees. Anal, isn't a bad thing if you are careful I would rather explore other kinds of sex with partners who are trustworthy.

More of a top but I've been fucked and enjoyed it. I LOVE eating ass then fucking it. I'm hung big 9'x6'c and just turned 50, and young guys in their 20's are constantly hitting on me wanting to get rimmed and fucked hard.

I'm more than happy to oblige, but it makes me wonder if guys closer to their age aren't willing? Last night my non monogamous bf fucked me. I usually rim and fuck him and he loves it, even though it hurts him.

IDK if it's the angle of his cock or his technique, but I just don't enjoy it that much. And everyone, tops and bottoms, should be doing their Kegels.

Jan 29,  · You guys don't know what you're missing. My cooter got punished last night. It's almost 10 and it feels like his cock is still pounding my hole. Meet Dulcinea Pitagora, a multi-talented woman who is working on her dissertation and would love for straight men who engage in pegging to take her survey. I’m currently disseminating the link to my dissertation research study, examining the influence of BDSM orientation on heteronormativity, shame, and pride among straight men who engage in receptive anal sex (with women penetrating them). In real life they cannot get enough of us. I walk the streets and i see women like this with their unconfident men and there men get timid and stare at their white attractive women they know watches porn like this, hoping she doesn't look into my brown eyes and have me take her hand as i walk by.