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Like most people of my age 60 , I am very lonely. The trouble is, I am celibate. I have looked at websites and find them so off-putting. Having to send a photograph is daunting I photograph badly. I am told that I have a bubbly personality and am very warm and kind.

I would like that to be enough. Do you know of an organisation I can pay to find a matching companion? Please let me know. I am sure you are not the only person who feels the way you do. You have another distinction. You are the last person whose letter I am going to answer in this column because my tenure, by my choice, is nearly at an end.

I will be saying more about this next week when I have a look back, but I want to flag up to readers that I will not be answering any more problems. Unless, of course, anything I have said over the past few years has helped you, in which case I would be very happy to hear from you. I want to start looking at your problem, Jennifer, by challenging your assumption that most people of your age are lonely.

Some people are lonely, I do agree, and it is a downside of ageing that there is shrinkage and loss. The end of a working life signals a loss of colleagues and team spirit. The end of a relationship, through divorce or death, is harder to recover from. Children are grown and gone, and it is easy to feel superfluous and unwanted. The way to survive is to battle these thoughts head on and to reach out and do something.

It hardly matters what that is: And this applies whatever age you are, whether you are a broken-hearted year-old, a redundant year-old, a divorced year-old or a socially isolated pensioner. You live in the middle of London, which is a huge advantage. On your doorstep are more social and cultural opportunities than I could shake a stick at. That depends, I suspect, on your reasons for choosing celibacy.

You could have philosophical and religious reasons for choosing to deny the sexual part of yourself. Or you could simply be chicken. You could have boxed yourself into the corner of thinking that your body no longer bears inspection or that it might not function in the way it once did. Or you might not be able to face the idea of an elderly male body not functioning as it once did either.

It concerns me that you are so decided about the celibacy. Where do you draw the line? By cutting off this possibility at the start, you are trying to exercise total control and deny the relationship any spontaneity or surprise. There is a website, www. You say you are prepared to spend money on this search. However, there are alternatives. I think it would help you to have a coach or guide like Paula Rosdol, an American businesswoman with extensive experience of internet dating.

It helps women like you to feel they have someone on their side. You can find out more about her at www. She also offers a free minute consultation to answer your initial questions.

When I put your query to her she said: If it is due to intimacy issues, any form of relationship beyond a casual friendship may be challenging. All relationships beyond the professional and cursory require us to share of ourselves, if not on a physical level, then on an emotional one.

I think she is right, which is why I urge you to widen your search. Make finding one true friend your goal, by all means, but there is a world of friendship out there and if you simply want to meet all kinds of people, then your options are much wider than somebody who is looking for a true and complete love. Start with yourself and your passions. Make it a goal to find groups in which you share an activity or discussion or create something with others.

I recommend the world of Meetup. I could spend all day on this website. There are walking groups, art groups, groups for vampires and for learning Vietnamese, groups for chocolate, photography, laughter and culture, groups for hiking and volunteering, groups for atheism and Christianity. There are groups for flirting and meeting and friendship of every kind.

There are groups for cinema buffs, lonely writers and music makers. There are groups for socialising and dancing. You could make friends doing something you love, or you could explore a new activity. I think this is the way to go to fast-forward your search. One friend is nice, but not enough. By experimenting with groups and interests, you could find a whole new direction and banish your loneliness for ever.

Accessibility links Skip to article Skip to navigation. Wednesday 24 October I am 60 and want to find a companion but I am celibate. Where can I find someone else like me? In Lifeclass this week, Lesley Garner advises a reader on how to go about finding a purely platonic partner. In search of a platonic relationship. More from the web. More from The Telegraph.

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