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I didn't I didn't her and I don't drink. Wanting for all day tomorrow before 5 as early as 7. Let's chat or hangout and see where this goes (hopefully up my boobies) i have more photos, just email me. You don't even have to take any clothes off if you don't want to. Hello, angel baby.

Laid back and open minded. Interested in most anything as long as it doesn??? Also, looking for like minded couples and single females to socialize with and of course play with as well. We love to go out dancing, club hopping and like to go to concerts.

Nothing has to go down for us to hang. We can go clubbing or some other fun events its your call. We are just looking for new friends maybe FWB. We are a happily married couple who have been together for 6 years. We are looking to spice things up and add to what we already have. In play, we enjoy many things from voyeurism to full swap. She likes to have many hands on her body at once. He enjoys watching while participating.

She has limited experience with females, but is open. We are both wild University of Kentucky fans!! We belong to BGS in Louisville and enjoy visiting there often. If you see us, don't be shy, come and say hello! Please don't be afraid to message us. Tell us your fantasies! We enjoy making friends and if you don't try-- you will never know! We respond to all email. We will do our best to reply in a timely manner!

Please share a face picture; we do. We look forward to hearing from you!! She is 5'4" and around lbs. He is 5'11' and around lbs with the same coloring, not including the grey creeping into his hair. Some even say we look alike- you can decide for yourself. He is laid back and a little shy. She is bouncy and full of energy. We are a couple ages 59 and 54, I, the woman am in a wheelchair but that doesn't stop me. I have been in the lifestyle for a couple of years but haven't done that much because guys are scared of me because I'm in a chair.

Guys I'm a woman first and I have all the needs and wants that any other woman has. Him the guy, I'm 54 and kind of a newbie but willing to try anything as long as its not pain. I'm very open minded and love to please. I like to see my lady being pleased by other men, it is a turn on for me to watch and sometimes join in. Sorry to say we aren't taking any party invites. Thank you so much for thinking about us.

If a few couples would like to get together at our Apt. No institutes or persons may use this profile for any other reason other than Promoting the Lifestyle. Publicizing it is unforgivable!!!!

He is the consummate "bad boy" never really grew up, he's the one that likes to walk around, and say look at me, some say its arrogance, but I love my "Confidant man" so you do the math, Just goes to show that when you are a couple, you do whatever you do, we are all different in our own ways, and either nurture the differences or.. She is the polar opposite, outgoing yet reserved and sexy, she will prance around showing off her perfect ASS, yes she makes jeans crawl on her.

She will most likely say, yes, I thank goodness all the time, I think I will keep him.. And here is the rest of the story???. Looking for couples or one special lady ; that don't have thin skin, scared off by a profile This is a couple??? If you have gotten this far in the reading, you are probably saying to yourself, "self" why don??? This is not a dating site for singles, therefore, the process is simple, either it??? Its better to get to know people in a social setting and not always at a "lifestyle club", get to know us as we are, not as, we think we should be.

Please do not waste your time If you are not sure what that means then you are probably not This doesn't mean that we won??? There will be no skin off either one of our asses That is nothing more than simple electronic mail protocol??? Straight for both, labels are for bottles Not going to discuss how, hot and fit we are, or the fact that we are educated and successful, we are just normal people, that happen to be on this site looking for lasting friendships and not touting who and what we are.

Besides if every everyone were as educated and successful as they claim If you are Interested in us, just send a note and we will send a picture or two We are a married couple that is secure in our relationship; we like to do everything together. Seems so difficult to find what you are looking for these days. Email us, what do you have to loose, if you are sexy you know you will get a response. We are a couple in our early 40s and sexy, she is hot and he is just as attractive.

We are a fit couple that enjoys the same from our friends, we don't like to be crass but we are kind of picky. Email us and we will share a picture or two Home Signup Contact Terms of Service.

Not looking to replace each other just adding spice to what we already have! We love riding our Harley, camping and boating. And of course beaches anywhere.

We are a happily married, fun-loving couple who enjoy living, learning and experiencing life together. We are true romantics and have been have been having lots of fun seeing where our hedonistic tendencies lead us. You may notice that our profile is brief.

There's more to us than can be seen in a couple paragraphs or pictures so let's keep it simple and get to the fun part. We are a MWC looking to find friends as well as sex partners, We love the out doors camping, hiking,fishing,ect.

Just a normal guy, looking for someone normal to chat with. Gifted with a witty sense of humor and charm. Nothing wrong with trying to make someone smile in my book. Allergic to all drama. I firmly believe in making friends over enemies. Friends make the world go round. Met an older guy a few weeks ago at a bar. Went to his place and fucked him. Learned that older is better! Now I want more!!!!!

He is tall, athletic, handsome, devilishly funny, a perceptive lover, and capable of most anything. She is a goddess. Tall and beautifully porportioned with ample breasts, a thin waist and lovely legs. Her eyes twinkle, her smile shines and her voice enchants. Not to mention that she is brilliant, witty, and wildly passionate.

Oh, and we're both very modest ;. We like to spend time together, and to socialize with friends. Whether it be at a vineyard concert, a resort, or around the firepit in our backyard, good wine good friends and as our California friends say, "Good Times, good times. He works out twice a week bench press pounds.

We've never done drugs and have never had any STD. We have a 6-person hot tub. We are very happily married for 18 years now. We have loved every minute of it and made some life long friends.

We love to socialize. Wayne is very layed back and loves to watch Barb have fun. He dosen't care if he participates or not. As long as he can watch.

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Looking for Quality not Quantity. Please be real and respectful. Good looks are important to us Personality can make up for looks though! Life of the party. Oh yeah, and beautifully "enhanced" perfect breasts! She is not Bi or Bi-curious Handsome, Respectful and laid back. Can be very kinky, curious and unpredictable but always respects others rules!

Bodybuilder but not "overly" muscular and photography as hobbies. Just looking for new friends feel free to say hi! We are both laid back, witty, and non judgmental married couple that has been in the lifestyle for quite some time.

We've been though just about every experience there is to have in this lifestyle and enjoyed most of it: Single males are very welcome to contact us: I love to dance, strip and tease!! Slow sensual dance, hot and erotic. No sex, just dancing to tease and please. BF will always be present. Pretty laid back, sort of quiet. Love sports - obviously UK by the username.

Have no problem being out of my comfort zone. Just moved to the Lexington area. Looking to meet couples and females for fun times. I hope you will concider me. I am average length and thick. I am very good orally. Just want to meet new friends and have fun. Masculine ,butch, hairy, hung ,dude here. Bi sexual and very aggresive. We have been together for 20 years. We are very happy and stable together. We have gone into this together and get as much pleasure out of each other having fun with others as having fun ourselves.

If you send a gallery request please open yours to us as well. Please be willing to share face pictures as well. We understand not wanting face pictures public, we don't have ours public, but at least have some private. Don't really understand not having face pictures in a private gallery but wanting to email them. You give up more control over the pictures through email then having them in a private gallery.

They can be G rated face pictures but everyone needs a little something to go by. If you send mail and don't get an immediate response please be patient.

We are not always on at the same time and like to both look at your profile before responding. Very real, educated, professional, happily married couple with very satisfying sex life that likes quiet nights at home in the bedroom and hot nights on the town. We love to travel and seeing new things. We consider ourselves attractive and there has to be an attraction and chemistry as well as good personalities.

After all, that plays a big part in this life style. We are not rude but please understand that we are selective and don't just play with everyone. We like meeting new and fun people but if you are going to contact us please have face pictures.

After taking a long break we are ready for some fun. We are fun, outgoing,?? We have children,which means we cant meet on short notice. We usually go with the flow,anything from cornhole to frisbee golf. I love taking pics and she loves being in them.

I have red hair sometimes strawberry blonde , brown eyes, petite build, professional yet very fun and outgoing We are happily married and love to have a good time, dance and just hang out. We are looking for couples and single male and females to be "adult" every now and then!!!! He is straight and crazy and she is just downright sexy and BI!!

She would love to find a girl who wants to be wild and not hold anything back!! We want to find people who want the same as us. Dinner, drinks, yeah that's fun, but we like the GOOD stuff!!! We are busy with family but would love to get together for some crazy times! We are a happily married couple looking for other confident couples to have fun with. She is tall, sexy, very outgoing, with a full of life personality.

She brings the party! Has loooong legs that she likes to wrap around her playmates. She is very n2chicks! He is a tall, dark, and handsome guy. Laid back by nature, but opens up quickly. Searching for bi- ladies or couples with bi-ladies only! We are very secure in our relationship and not seeking replacements, only new experiences. We are not seeking males, only bi-ladies and couples with bi-ladies. If we should find a male interesting, we will email you. So please, don't flood our inbox.

We do not rush right into bed but rather like to get to know people first and see if things click right for the next level. Although, hygiene is a must! She is a beautiful fun-loving country girl that thrives on being the life of the party. She is new to the lifestyle, but more than makes up for the experience with her abilities in bed. She absolutely loves the ladies and enjoys hours of play with her high sex drive. He s very experienced in the lifestyle and very down-to-earth, humourous, and charming.

Both are open-minded and outgoing. Both are fit, clean and very comfortable in their own skin. Looking to meet adventurous couples or single women for fun!

Only couples or single bi-females reply We only play as a couple We are not looking to try to improve other couples relationships or be counselors we are just here to have fun!! We have been in the lifestyle now for around 4 years.

We have had lots of encounters that we have enjoyed. We do not like to share all of them because we just don't want everyone to know what we do. We like to be judged just for being us.

We are both educated and have professions in the spotlight, so we decide to be very discreet and expect the same courtesy. Looking for a woman that wants to have fun, may consider right couple.

We are very private, no drama! If you want a face pics just ask. We are are always looking for a fun time. We like to get to know people and then that makes the night even better. We enjoy boating, dancing, going out for great dinners, and having fun. We don't even mind occasionally getting kicked out of the strip clubs my wife is hotter then most of the strippers: We have the best time together and we are always looking for fun friends to share it with!

Well maintained, educated and financially secure, single man. Enjoy nude beaches, dining out, good wine, playing with friends, working with my horses and dancing, especially Argentine Tango. He is very laid back and she is high energy. Both are very drama free.

Both are very straight although she will play with her. We are not looking for numbers but we are also real. Sexy interracial couple looking for fun females an couples.

Only interested in men over Don't contact me unless you are this age or older. Otherwise I will ignore you. I prefer quality over quantity. Say hi and I'll be happy to open my pics. Looking to meet couples and single ladies for friendships with possibl. We are a truly committed couple who strive to enjoy every aspect of our lives. We enjoy an evening "out on the town" or a quiet evening at home. We both enjoy outdoor activities and just generally goofing off.

We do have kids in the house fairly regularly and therefore require some planning before we can get together. One of our favorite ways to spend an evening involves a few friends, a few drinks, and lots of laughter.

I'm a single, professional man in my thirties. I am discreet and respectful. I'm fun loving and good company in and out of bed.

I've been working hard on getting in the best shape of my life this past year. Now I'm looking for playmates to share the results of my hard work.

We been together for over 10 years. We would like to try this out. We have never done this before. We love to ride horses, play euchre and party with friends, we'll be on vacation in the mrytle beach area thru Where are the fun places to go????? Looking for local friends and playmates, no strings. I am very easy going, respect other at all times, not pushy, love to please the ladies, show up on time, and always horny.

I am single divorced, live alone so I can host or travel as I need. Love to give oral until she cums several times, then I enjoy one one one, 3 somes, and more somes, swinger parties and events. I own my own business, so I stay busy, I play soccer and stay in shape. I am single, live alone so I can host or travel as needed. Laid back women pleaser.

Enjoy the company of females whether single or accompanied. Enjoy hanging out, dancing and anything sexual. Just relocated to Lexington and once we get settled will need to be sh. We are a happily Married couple of?? We like to learn more about people via chatting or in person, so just ask us what you would like to know.??

She is a talker from the word go, but he usually takes a little while to get warmed up. We've been married for 19 years and playing with friends for the last couple of years. Oh, and we're both very modest ; We like to spend time together, and to socialize with friends. Looking to meet fun people who don't judge everyone by height,weight. He is more quiet and shy and she is very out going and friendy and has never met a stranger. Fill in more later! I'm a laid back guy who loves pleasing women.

I'm a very unselfish lover and love to make a woman feel good. I'm single but open to a relationship with the rtight woman. Other than that Im just here to have fun and meet fun likeminded poeple! We are a fun loving married couple that adore one another. We truly love fun, nice, sweet, kind people.

If you qualify, please drop- us a line. We love live music of almost any kind, a chilled shot of Patron or several. Never met a stranger. We have the day to day schedules like most others, but when we can we like to get out and have a good time.

Both laid back, easy going people and we are looking to meet the same. If you want to know more, feel free to send us a messge. I like to work hard and play hard.?? I love to travel. Just live life in general. I play soccer and love golf.?? And sex but who doesn't love sex.?? Can't ever seem to get enough but hopeing that I will meet some new to people that see life the same way i do.

Looking to meet fun couples or females in the Lexington, KY area. We are a happily married couple of 26 years actually high school sweethearts. We love traveling and making new friends which led us to the lifestyle. We are not looking for single males or just random sex. If we don't click as friends with common interests we won't "click" otherwise. We are looking for couples and Single women at this time!

If you would like to see more pics just ask we have TONS more! I'm a very respectful, experienced, straight male that would like to meet couples and single females. I absolutely love going down on a woman. We are a committed long time couple- laid back, loving, and easily amused-- we love to laugh, have dinner and drinks while getting to know others.

For us, chemistry is key. We like to get to know others before deciding to play. The brain is the largest sex organ. We answer every couple's email, even if it's a refusal. We consider ourselves soulmates and fully enjoy most things sexual, but we only play together. Don't like pushy people, prob won't put out on the first date unless we just can't help ourselves. You do however have to have all your teeth, this is a deal breaker!

Would like to be friends first, some chatting, chemistry is a must. Non-smoking drinkers, I'm friendly, he is 69 friendly. He is a huge football fan. I just enjoy good conversation. There has to be chemistry. He is well groomed with minimal body hair.

I'm tall, carmel complexion, athletic build, work out occasionally, with a shaved head only facial hair. Love most all forms of sex, with women Hit me up for some real good sex with some real good dick!! Look me up on my other site handle to chat, qaswed24 yahoo.

She is very out going warms up easy, Very new to this just taking it slow. Likes what she sees so far!! Still can Use some Help need volunteers!!!! He has been in this life style for a while thru?? Looking to meet happy people. We don't have to have sex to be friends. We do not reply to profiles with no pics. Looking to meet hot, sexy, people who love to laugh!

A self proclaimed golf nut! Lifestyle friends looking for additional friends. We are very good FWB that love to meet others for occasional playtime. We are both casual, laid back, and simply out to have a fun time. We are both very open sexually and like exploring. We are looking for fun couples to play in our area??? We are a secure couple looking to supplement our great sex life.?? Looking for some fun adult times to expand our sexual experiences.?? We love traveling, trips to casinos and riding our Goldwing.??

We are a couple that is full of life, sensual, friendly, adventurous, spontaneous, discreet, non-smoking and enjoy trying new experiences.?? We both have a sense of humor.?? We both can go all night.?? Both of us are very talented when it come to pleasuring.?? She can never get enough and is wonderful orally.?? He is well endowed and can last for hours.?? We are discreet and hope that you are.?? We only play as a couple - no singles.?? We are not into endless e-mail and chat.??

We would rather meet in person.?????? Im single and looking to mingle! I'm a very laid back guy in public, who can carry on a good conversation and always looking to make new friends. I would love to find an older cpl or female to take me under their wing and introduce me to the finer things in life! Great sense of humor, intelligent, independant, friendly I'm a normal guy with an expanded view of sex and pleasure.

I enjoy film, music, art, food, wine,?? People who know who they are and what they want and can easily express that, because that's how I am.

Any questions just ask I'm pretty straight forward and I'll try to be nice?? I'm nicely hung if that counts for something in your book 8inches. We have been together over?? We can say we have some really sexy friends We like Hot Tubs , boating , bikeing , camping , cook outs?? We're a young couple that enjoys going out, having fun, and meeting new people. We can be very social and sometimes quiet. Looking for someone who is clean, discreet, and experienced. Please provide a picture if one is not on your profile.

Please be patient, work schedule is a killer for us both right now! We are a very secure couple looking for friendship and fun! We can enjoy anything with the right company: We do love a wide range of things, so ask us: No males playing alone.

We are both outgoing easy to talk to. We enjoy working out and staying in shape. I'm a bit shy and quiet at first till i'm warmed up and filled out the person s. I've been many places, and seen and done many different things, still I enjoy a pleasant surprise I love sports, music, and movies!!!

I like to laugh and have fun after business is done. I am a very open and honest person. I don't see the purpose of lying to anyone. I'm big big on brutal honesty. Id rather be rejected or criticized honestly, then to be told partial truths, and have things sugarcoated.

I feel that I am a gifted listener, so we can enjoy good conversation on various topics. I'm usually pretty direct and to the point, but that works best for me, an by know means am I a pushy person. Sexually I haven't found much that I didn't like, I'm okay with regular sex to a little kinky but not to crazy. I like playing private, and in small groups. Need to be discreet. For me laid back pretty much says it all.?? I am easy to get along with and can be interesting to talk to.??

I love anything outdoors.?? I like to go camping and hiking as well as fishing and boating.?? I play a fair round of golf.?? I also like going out on a night on the town and love live music and dancing.??

I make no pretences.?? What you see is what you get.?? I like to think I have at least a little bit of class.?? I can hold a pretty intelligent conversation.????

Yes, I've been around the lifestyle for quite a few years.?? But I never take anything for granted and treat each encounter as if it were my first.??

Because each time I meet a new couple or single female it is a first.?? I tend to be a bit shy?? I'm not pushy or assume anything.

I love going to parties.?? But getting all these party invitations for parties miles away from folks I don't know is a waste of both our time.?? It's obvious that some folks are sending invitations to the world in hopes of filling up their parties.?? If you are hosting a party within miles and are really, seriously interested in single males let me know.??

But don't send me an invite just to tell me later you have exceeded your limit for single males. Sexy fun loving couple just living life to its fullest!!! We are an attractive, legitimate, fun loving couple who enjoy all sorts of activities and meeting people to share friendship, experiences, and even learn a few things from. We both work odd hours that change form week to week but we do not have any kids yet and our schedule is very flexible.

He is an athletic guy that enjoys sports, the outdoors, and traveling. She is an athletic person that enjoys working out, fine dining, traveling and the outdoors.

Both of us are easy going people but with a discreet and sometimes naughty side Always looking for new and exciting experiences!

We have been together for five years and been "playing" for just as long! Engaged to be married next year! That doesn't mean we don't play seperately any more though. Sometimes thehe is nothing hotter than the occassional unexpected story during hot sex! Looking to talk to people. We're looking for a little variation to add spice Single straight Male looking to just enjoy and have fun!!!

I love to just laugh and have fun and i'm looking for the same.???? I'm always down at the hoo so hit me up anytime. I am what is typically called a submissive. I like giving up control.. I am interested in meeting new people.?? Sex is major for me.?? I used to ride horses a lot, but of late most of my hobbies have been put aside.??

I know that sounds bad, but it is what it is. Love talking to people about whats up and reading. We are interested in meeting like minded couples for friendship and adult activities.

We have been in the lifestyle for several years and enjoy lifestyle clubs as well as more intimate settings. I like sports and going to the movies as well as a quiet evening at home snuggled up on the couch or in the bedroom. I am open to what the other person would like to do but not at the expense of my likes and dislikes.

Fun, friendly- happily married and love to play! I enjoy open minded people who are secure in their lifes and loves to share. One on one or threesomes are a lot of fun. Hobbies are traveling, and riding my motorcycle.

I have played in the lifestyle for a few years and really have enjoyed meeting everyone. We can chat about this Camping, golfing, movies are just a few things we enjoy.??

I am a Married Bisexual male seeking bisexual couples or singles for friendship and fun.?? Wife is also interested in playing with couples or bisexual males.?? We usually play as a couple but may play alone with the right single. Looking to meet single females for friends and fun. I'm easy going,bi-curious female. Im a laid back guy Im a thinker and a lover. I play disc golf workout a little bit not a gym rat though.

Im single, love the outdoors. Motorcycles, boating, camping hiking. Also love music and movies. Probably the last of a dying breed I am a professional guy always looking for new friends and adventures Also note that because my personal life conflicts with and would not be accepted by my professional life, I must keep the two separate therefore I do not do pics over the internet Enjoy walks, relaxing nights by a fire, reading, cooking,sports yes I do ,movie nights, lets talk more and find out.

I am single at this time, honest I have a very good friend with no strings that I do see with his wife's permission. I am that sexy hot female, with smiles, fun, exciting, passionate. You only go around the track one time in life I'm athletic, tan and in shape I'm very easy going, love to laugh and I don't take things too?? I'm very open minded?? I try to squeeze in as much pleasure when time is short as I possibly can.

Come and see for yourself! Couple looking for another lady to play with us. We are a very loving married couple.?? He is into watching sports and knows everything about it.??

She loves watching Nascar only.?? She likes oral both giving and receiving, one on one, 3sums,4sums and gang bangs. She also enjoys kissing, massage, blindfolds, light bondage and toy play.

Taking a break - I am not looking at this time. Seeking fun, discreet couples to enjoy adult fun,. Fun, clean, discreet guy. Respectful of others and respect their rules. Very oral and love to please. Not well hung but I do know how to use what I have. Love the outdoors, love Harleys. Would like to find some REAL people on here. Looking meet fun and sexual people for friends and more. Single Male Straight Hisp. I am interested in meeting fun sexual people that no how to have a good time.?? I like anything from mild to wild.??

I am kinda a sexual freak and am respectful of your needs and limtations. Polite, discreet, respectful, clean, openminded Looking to share warm bottle of massage oil, and maybe more Baby it's cold outside! Come inside and warm up with us! Monday, December 14, ?? Laid back, loving, and easily amused-- we love to laugh, have dinner and drinks while getting to know others.??

For us, chemistry is key.?? In play, we enjoy many things from voyeurism to full swap.?? She likes to have many hands on her body at once.??

He enjoys watching while participating.?? She has limited experience with females, but is open.?? She loves to receive spankings from willing spankers!?? We are both wild University of Kentucky fans!!?? We belong to BGS in Louisville and enjoy visiting there often.?? Please don't be afraid to message us.?? We enjoy making friends and if you don't try-- you will never know!?? We respond to all email.??

We will do our best to reply in a timely manner!?? We look forward to hearing from you!!?? Mythical Unicorn - Single female looking for playmates. I am currently not playing I wish you all luck. I will not approve gallery request for people that I will have no chance of meeting. I'm not looking for people any farther than Louisville or Cincinnati. I'm not here for a photo swap or to be someone's fantasy. I'm looking to meet REAL people. Please respect this and save us both the time. I am easy going and fun loving woman.

I enjoy sex and I don't think it should come with the usually drama. I just want to enjoy life and what it has to offer. Sex should be fun and enjoyable for all involved.. We are very new to the lifestyle. We are looking for an attractive female for our first experience, then who knows from there! Such a thing is not a realistic option with multiple partners, which requires a greater level of transparency upfront and necessitates constant communication.

But scheduling is not even the most intense challenge that people who chose to practice non-monogamy find themselves faced with. The biggest challenge non-monogamous folks face is rather monstrous, in fact.

As it turns out, neither is the case. People who practice non-monogamy are more than aware of the existence of jealousy, and more than capable of experiencing it themselves. Jealousy, while it can be worked with and talked through , is a natural emotion that even those of us who choose to take a non-traditional path still experience. In comparison with monogamy, in fact, it forces a kind of work on trust that monogamous relationships bypass via the terms of monogamy.

But non-monogamy turns that on its head. Once possession is removed, the love between two or more people is no longer defined by what they will not do with others, but by what they actually feel and have together. You are not being asked simply to trust that your partner will obey your mutually established rules , but instead to trust in your mutually established love.

Trust that a casual tryst will not threaten your love. Trust that a new partner is truly an addition and not a replacement. Trust that even as a secondary or tertiary lover, you are still cared for and respected.

Not to knock the merits or challenges of monogamy, but where time management, jealousy and trust are concerned, non-monogamous folk have a bit of a fuller plate, if I must say so myself. Do not be fooled into believing that the option to love and be loved by more than one human makes non-monogamy easy. It may feel like a more natural state of being, but nevertheless, as with all interpersonal relationships, hard work is not only expected but required.

While that does make logical sense, love knows not of logic, and as fate would have it monogamous and non-monogamous people can and frequently do find themselves involved, in love, and in relationships. Refer to myth two! It requires compromise and understanding. Perhaps the parties involved agree that the monogamous partner will continue to practice monogamy while the non-monogamous partner is free to practice a form of non- monogamy.

I dated a man who was monogamous by nature, and was so with me, but was comfortable with my having a girlfriend in addition to our relationship, even though my relationship with her did not involve him [read: Similarly, perhaps an ordinarily monogamous partner will test and stretch their limits, agreeing to a mostly monogamous relationship with a swingers party here or a threesome there on occasion.

At the end of the day we are all more than the labels we assign ourselves, and people who may seem unlikely to mesh on paper can and do attract. As long as trust, respect and consent are part of the formula, a mono and a poly can surely make it work. To the monogamous world, two people who essentially belong to each other is the only kind of fathomable commitment in existence. Since non-monogamous relationships function without the ideas of possession in play, some feel that this means commitment cannot and does not exist.

Commitment absolutely can and does exist within non-monogamous relationships. Take the earlier example. My boyfriend was committed to me. I was committed to him. I was also committed to my girlfriend. She was committed to me. She was also committed to her boyfriend. He was committed to her. Conventional relationship ideals may claim this is ludicrous, but think of the structure of a family. Think of a mother who has more than one child.

Does the arrival of baby number two mean that suddenly baby number one is getting tossed aside? So it looks like this thing between us is coming to a close, as your little brother will be arriving in just a few short weeks. I hope we can still be friends.

Multiple relationships can exist, all of them committed. This can be, but is not always the case. There are different types of non-monogamy, some where all parties involved are absolutely equal - in terms of love and commitment, that is - some where they are not.

The following are some but not all examples of non-monogamous relationships. These two people are committed to each other, and each other alone. The terms may vary, but typically it means that while the two can pursue physical thrills outside of the relationship, their loyalty lies with their respective partner alone. Very similar to an open relationship , there is a primary couple and they are loyal to each other alone. This can even be considered a type of open relationship, but it is characterized by the couple exploring pursuits outside their relationship together, if not always simultaneously.

Going to a swingers party together, potentially finding an activity to participate in together, both parties participating in different activities, or one or both not necessarily partaking at all. Unlike the open relationship, a polyamorous relationship allows for multiple relationships multiple loves, if you will at the same time.

Other relationships, while they may indeed be loving, will not take precedence over the primary relationship. Here there are multiple relationships but without hierarchy. The relationships may intermingle, they may not. Group relationships may form, they may not. And they may as well in hierarchal poly, I might add. There is no first tier, second tier, third tier. All things being equal is the goal. This form of non-monogamy is exactly what it sounds like.

A sort of amorous chaos. It allows all relationships with others to be what they are, when they are, whatever they are, without operating within tiers of importance, defined parameters or preset expectations. The ultimate exercise in relationship freedom, it is living and loving without limits, and letting the relationship chips fall where they may. The important thing to understand is that committed non-monogamy is not necessarily just a version of monogamy with some casual sex thrown in here and there.

Can the two exist together? First, non-monogamy is not kink in and of itself. But when people think of non-monogamy, their minds go to one place - fast. If monogamy is categorized by not having sex with everyone, then non-monogamy must be about having sex with everyone, right? It must be about threesomes, and foursomes, and group sex, and orgies, and swingers parties with fire breathing, leather clad jugglers in nipple clamps swinging from the chandeliers.

It does not mean that one is necessarily with multiple partners simultaneously. It does not mean that one is necessarily having indiscriminate sex. And it does not mean that one is, while having indiscriminate sex with multiple partners simultaneously, also strapped to the bed with leather cuffs in nipple clamps and a crystal butt plug.

Can one enjoy a non-monogamous relationship and a crystal butt plug at the same time?

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