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I t was the journalist Julia Baird who wrote on Twitter: Am curious to hear. Her anxiety here is not unique. But those women already feel taken to pieces also by Greer, who said: Greer and the Deneuve group are notallolderfeminists. We forget, in the west, just how transformative the past few decades have been. On American television, even married couples on TV sitcoms were depicted in separate beds.

The restrictions placed on female agency at the time — especially through the institution of marriage, which women entered younger and were less enfranchised to leave than now — are staggering to imagine. Britain did not make marital rape illegal until For feminists who survived those generations, it must seem extraordinary to have battled at such risk for liberation to hear younger women discuss sexual contracts, a desire for boundaries, a wish not to be sexualised by men in their lives. As soon as older feminists had won sexual liberation, patriarchy reframed it as sexual availability for men.

And ubiquitous female sexualisation has manifested a reality in which young women find themselves in unwittingly sexualised situations all the time.

Young women are right to feel that destigmatised sex has enhanced their traditional patriarchal status as sex objects, not liberated them from it. They will until the systems themselves are upended and transformed.

We need an army to do it. MeToo has enabled a moment of global feminist awakening. The patriarchal backlash is already mobilising its lawyers, and defenders.

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The non-personal nature of the comment makes it unthreatening and non-intrusive; the interrogative questioning tone or 'isn't it? There is a big difference between an interrogative comment such as "Terrible weather, eh? The direct question demands and requires a reply, the interrogative comment allows the other person to respond minimally, or not respond at all, if he or she does not wish to talk to you.

In some social contexts — such as those involving sports, hobbies, learning, business or other specific activities — the assumption of shared interests makes initiating conversation much easier, as your opening line can refer to some aspect of the activity in question.

In some such contexts, there may even be a ritual procedure to follow for initiating conversation with a stranger. At the races, for example, anyone can ask anyone "What's your tip for the next?

Unless the context you are in provides such a convenient ritual, use the IIC Impersonal Interrogative Comment formula. This formula can be adapted to almost any situation or occasion. Just make a general, impersonal comment on some aspect of the event, activity, circumstances or surroundings, with a rising intonation or 'isn't it? Your target will recognise this as a conversation-starter, and his or her response will tell you immediately whether or not it is welcomed.

There are of course degrees of positive and negative response to an IIC. The elements you need to listen for are length, personalising and questioning. As a general rule, the longer the response, the better. If your target responds to your comment with a reply of the same length or longer, this is a good sign. A personalised response, i. A personalised response ending in a question or interrogative rising intonation as in "I thought it was supposed to clear up by this afternoon?

So, if you say "Nice day, isn't it? Note that there is nothing original, witty or clever about the above exchange. You may even be inclined to dismiss it as polite, boring and insignificant. In fact, a great deal of vital social information has been exchanged. The biggest mistake most people make with opening lines is to try to start a flirtation, rather than simply trying to start a conversation. If you think about your opening line as initiating a conversation, rather than starting a flirtation, use the IIC formula and pay close attention to the verbal and non-verbal response, you cannot go wrong.

Even if your target does not find you attractive and declines your invitation to talk, you will avoid causing offence and you will avoid the humiliation of a direct rejection. Once you have initiated a conversation with your chosen target, your success in making a favourable impression will depend as much on your social skills as on what you say. We have probably all met at least one person who is highly articulate, witty and amusing, but who loses friends and alienates people by hogging the conversation, not allowing others to get a word in.

You may also have come across the equally irritating strong, silent type who makes you do all the 'work' in the conversation — who never asks a question, never expresses interest and makes no effort to keep the conversation flowing. What you have to say may be fascinating, and you may express it with great eloquence, but if you have not grasped the basic social skills involved in conversational turn-taking, you will be perceived as arrogant and unpleasant, and neither your target nor anyone else will enjoy your company.

The basic rule on how much to talk is very simple: The essence of a good conversation, and a successful flirtation, is reciprocity: Achieving this reciprocity requires an understanding of the etiquette of turn-taking, knowing when to take your turn, as well as when and how to 'yield the floor' to your partner.

So, how do you know when it is your turn to speak? Pauses are not necessarily an infallible guide — one study found that the length of the average pause during speech was 0. In other words, people clearly used signals other than pauses to indicate that they had finished speaking. In previous sections of the Guide, we have described in detail the various non-verbal signals people use to show that they have finished what they are saying, and that it is your turn to speak.

These include eye-contact signals remember that people look away more when they are speaking, so when they look back at you, this often indicates that it is your turn and vocal signals such as rising or falling intonation, with a drop in volume. This may be accompanied by verbal 'turn-yielding' signals, such as the completion of a clause or 'tailing off' into meaningless expressions such as "you know". As a general rule, the more of these turn-yielding cues occur simultaneously, the more likely it is that your partner has finished and expects you to speak.

Watching and listening for these clues will help you to avoid interrupting, and also to avoid awkward gaps and lengthy pauses in the conversation. This Guide clearly cannot tell you exactly what to say, what words to use, in a flirtatious conversation, but it is possible to provide some general guidelines on what you talk about, and how you express yourself, particularly in terms of mistakes and pitfalls to avoid.

Negativity, for example, is real turn-off. If you talk too much about the bad side of things, and constantly complain about the world or your own problems, your partner will soon get bored and fed up. Other characteristics that research has identified as particularly boring or off-putting include self-preoccupation talking too much about yourself and showing too little interest in others , banality only talking about superficial things, repeating hackneyed jokes and stories , tediousness talking too slowly, pausing too long, taking too long to make a point , passivity failing to take full part in the conversation or express opinions , lack of enthusiasm talking in a monotone, not making eye-contact, expressing too little emotion , over-seriousness using a serious tone of voice and expression, even when your partner is trying to be light-hearted or humorous and over-excitement easily sidetracked, engaging in too much meaningless chatter, too much slang.

Compliments, on the other hand, are almost universally welcomed, and do not have to be witty or original. In other words, you should not be afraid of paying simple, unflowery compliments such as "That's a nice jacket" or "That colour really suits you", as they can be very effective. Clearly, excessive use of compliments will make you seem ingratiating, and your partner may become bored with too much suffocating niceness, but of all the ways you can bore someone, studies have shown that this is the least offensive.

Males should, however, avoid paying women embarrassing or potentially offensive compliments. This is not a matter of 'political correctness', but of basic social skills. Some men need to learn that it is entirely possible to convey to a female friend or acquaintance that you find her physically attractive, without being crass or intrusive.

A simple, admiring comment such as "You look lovely or pretty, or stunning " is enough. Anything more explicit will only cause embarrassment or offence. The body-language must be right as well: Timing is equally important: It is not possible to list all these situations here, but as a rule-of-thumb, only comment on a woman's appearance a if you know her well enough this kind of compliment should not be used as an opening line, but only at a much later stage in flirtatious conversation and b at times, places and situations where appearance is relevant — i.

If the situation is not one in which you would compliment a male acquaintance on his flattering new jacket or haircut, do not comment on a female's appearance either. In one American survey, women were asked what were the three words they would most like to hear from a male partner. The most common answer was not, as expected, "I love you", but "You've lost weight".

While you should not make any comment on a woman's figure unless you know her well, this compliment might please a girlfriend or close female friend. Good listeners have distinct advantages in the flirting stakes, but being a good listener is not just about shutting up and letting the other person talk although this certainly helps.

Good listening is essentially about giving good 'feedback', which involves giving both verbal and non-verbal signals to show that you are a paying attention, and b interested. Good verbal feedback signals include the use of expressions such as "mm-hmm", "yeah", "mmm", "ah" to show interest or agreement and to encourage the other person to continue. Research has shown that these basic feedback signals are highly effective in winning friends and influencing people.

They can even result in concrete, tangible rewards: Even just a few nods can significantly improve your chances, both in interviews and in flirtatious conversation.

Another effective good-listener technique is 'paraphrasing'. How did you get home? You may have noticed that the question at the end of the 'paraphrasing' example was an 'open' question, rather than a 'closed' question requiring only a yes or no response.

If you want to encourage your partner to talk, try to ask more open questions, such as "What kind of food do you like? If you are not sure about the difference, remember that open questions begin with one of the following words: Journalists and personnel managers are taught to ask questions beginning with these words in interviews, to encourage job candidates and sources to give detailed replies, but they are equally effective in informal social conversation — particularly in flirting!

One of the most important aspects of verbal flirting is what psychologists call 'reciprocal disclosure' — the exchange of personal information. In fact, unless partners disclose at least some personal details, the conversation can hardly be called a flirtation. When you first meet, these details do not have to be particularly intimate: If your partner discloses some such detail, you should reciprocate as soon as possible by revealing some similar information about yourself, perhaps 'raising the ante' a little by making your disclosure slightly more personal.

If your partner likes you, he or she will probably try to 'match' your disclosure with one of similar value. Reciprocal disclosure of this kind is a much more subtle and less threatening route to intimacy than asking direct personal questions.

The key to successful flirtation is to escalate the level of intimacy gradually, always maintaining a balance between your disclosures and those of your partner. Avoid getting too far ahead by revealing too much, or lagging behind by revealing too little. Women should be aware that men tend to interpret disclosure of personal information as a sign of sexual availability, and be particularly careful about how much they reveal.

Humour is a powerful flirting tool. It is almost impossible to flirt successfully or enjoyably without it, and yet it can easily backfire if abused or misused. On the positive side, studies have shown that people who use humour in social encounters are perceived as more likeable, and that both trust and attraction increase when a light-hearted approach is used.

Judicious use of humour can reduce anxiety and establish a relaxed mood which helps a relationship to develop more rapidly. On the negative side, inappropriate use of humour can kill a promising flirtation stone dead in a matter of seconds. Men are generally more likely to make this kind of fatal mistake than women. Women, however, need to be even more cautious in their use of sexual humour, as men will be inclined to interpret this as a sign of sexual availability.

While it is clearly important to avoid causing offence or giving misleading signals, humour is an essential element of flirtation. Flirting is by definition a light-hearted, playful form of interaction. A flirtatious encounter may eventually lead to a 'serious', long-term relationship, but too much seriousness in the early stages is off-putting. Even in the longer term, a capacity for light-hearted playfulness is important.

It is no accident that so many single people seeking partners through the personal ads include 'gsoh' good sense of humour in their requirements. Humour can clearly help to reduce tension and awkwardness in the early stages of a flirtatious encounter. In the section on opening lines, we advised the use of phrases which are universally recognised as 'conversation-starters', such as comments on the weather.

A touch of humour can make these openers even more effective. There is no need for elaborate attempts at wit: If your target does not find you attractive, more elaborate efforts will be no more effective. Once some degree of mutual attraction has been established, the use of humour in flirtatious conversations tends to come naturally, as both parties are motivated to keep their target amused and interested. Our natural instinct is to try to make the other person smile.

We need constant reassurance that we are liked and appreciated by the object of our attraction, and smiles and laughter provide that reassurance. One particular form of humour, playful teasing, is particularly common in flirtatious encounters. This is because playful teasing allows partners to increase the 'personal' content of the exchange, while keeping the tone light-hearted and non-serious, thus escalating the level of disclosure and intimacy in a non-threatening manner.

Men respond particularly well to this form of humour, as it closely resembles the 'mock-arguments' and good-humoured exchanges of insults which are their normal means of expressing friendship among themselves. The most common mistakes in flirtatious use of humour involve opposite extremes.

Men are more likely to over-use humour or monopolise the joke-telling, and fail to notice that their companion is bored or frustrated. Women sometimes have a tendency to under-use humour — to adopt a serious tone when their companion would be more comfortable with light-hearted banter. There are many exceptions, of course: If you feel you may sometimes be guilty of either excessive or inadequate use of humour, watch your companion carefully for signs of boredom or embarrassment — such as feet or body turning away from you, forced smiles, reduced eye-contact, reduced verbal attention-signals, fidgeting, defensive arm-crossing, etc.

If you are overdoing the humour, these would be your cues to tone it down a bit. If you are being too serious, lighten up! Your approach to leave-taking after a flirtatious conversation is of critical importance, as it will determine your future relationship with your companion. Many flirtatious encounters are of naturally short duration — where it is understood that there are no serious intentions, merely an ego-boosting acknowledgement of mutual attraction.

These light-hearted 'brief encounters' are part of normal social interaction, and only the pathetic or desperate would imagine that every passing exchange of flirtatious banter is a prelude to matrimony.

Flirting would not, however, be such a universal feature of human interaction if it did not occasionally serve some more long-term purpose — such as sex, reproduction, the survival of the species, etc.

While there is no harm in practising our flirting skills just for the fun of it, there will be some occasions when we wish to pursue the relationship, and a cheery, unconcerned "Bye, then" or "Nice meeting you" will not do. This is when parting words and gestures take on greater significance. Every salesperson knows that there is little point in establishing a great rapport with potential customers, attracting their interest, gaining their trust and so on, if you fail to 'close' — 'closing' being sales-speak for actually making the sale, securing the contract, getting the customer to hand over money or sign on the dotted line.

Sales staff are specifically trained in 'closing techniques' to help them achieve this all-important goal. In the same way, if you are genuinely attracted to your flirting partner, and want to see him or her again, none of the flirting skills in this Guide will be much use unless you can 'close' effectively.

In this case, your goal in 'closing' is to secure not a contract or a sale, but the chance to meet again. At the risk of rejection, this is the moment when you must be explicit about your wishes. Subtle hints and positive body-language will help you to get to this point, and careful observation of your partner's reactions will tell you whether your 'closing' is likely to be successful, but these techniques cannot, by themselves, get you a phone number or a date!

You have to ask. And the most effective strategy is simple honesty. You don't have to declare undying love, just ask: If making a date on the spot would be awkward or inappropriate, say something like: Some American 'dating manuals' recommend that you precede this request with a statement such as "I've really enjoyed talking with you and I'd like to see you again". You are welcome to do this if you wish, but it would seem to be already implicit in the request for a date or phone number, and therefore somewhat superfluous.

Dating manuals and articles in glossy women's magazines also constantly insist that it is perfectly acceptable nowadays for women to take the initiative in asking men out. In fact, they never fail to exclaim, men love it when women take the initiative. This is quite true, and if you read the more scientific research on the subject, you will find out why.

The studies and experiments show that men perceive women who take the initiative in asking a man out as more sexually available. To put it more bluntly, if a woman asks them out, they think they have a better chance of 'scoring'. Naturally, they are delighted. If you are female, and wish to avoid giving this impression, there is a simple solution. Instead of asking for his phone number, offer your own. This makes it perfectly clear that you are interested, but still requires the man to take the initiative in asking for a date.

You are of course free to dismiss this suggestion as hopelessly old-fashioned, sexist, pandering to double-standards, etc.

It is not the place of this Guide to make moral judgements about flirting, merely to provide information on the latest scientific findings. Flirting has been part of human behaviour for thousands of years, and whether we approve or not, the latest findings show that not much has changed. Males have always tended towards an over-optimistic interpretation of female signals, and females have always adjusted their signals to encourage only selected males.

Despite the disapproval of 17th-century Puritans, Victorian moralists and their modern equivalents in both the 'moral majority' and 'political correctness' camps, these basic flirting instincts persist, and the human species survives.

Click here to download and read the full document using Adobe's Acrobat Reader. If flirting is instinctive, why do we need this Guide? Drinking-places Flirting is also socially acceptable in some public settings, usually where alcohol is served — such as bars, pubs, night-clubs, discos, wine bars, restaurants, etc. Learning-places Schools, colleges, universities and other educational establishments are hot-beds of flirting.

Workplace At work, flirting is usually acceptable only in certain areas, with certain people and at specific times or occasions. Spectator events Although they have the advantage of providing conversation topics of mutual interest, most sporting events and other spectator pastimes such as theatre or cinema are not particularly conducive to flirting, as social interaction is not the primary purpose of the occasion, and social contact may limited to a short interval or require 'missing the action'.

Who to flirt with 'Flirting for fun' At one level, you can flirt with more or less anyone. Don't flirt with people who are unlikely to return your interest. How to flirt The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone.

Non-verbal flirting When a man and a woman meet for the first time, both are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation. Eye contact Your eyes are probably your most important flirting tool. Interpersonal distance The distance you keep from the other person when flirting is important, because it will affect his or her impression of you, and the quality of your interaction.

Posture Most of us are quite good at controlling our faces — maintaining an expression of polite interest, for example, when we are really bored to tears, or even nodding when we really disagree! Gestures As well as overall body posture, the gestures we use can signal interest, attraction and invitation — or discomfort, dislike and rejection.

Facial expression An ability to 'read' and interpret the facial expressions of your partner will improve your chances of successful flirting, as will awareness of what you are signalling with your own expressions. Touch Touching is a powerful, subtle and complex form of communication.

Vocal signals You may be surprised to see this heading in the 'Non-verbal flirting' section, but 'verbal' means 'words' and vocal signals such as tone of voice, pitch, volume, speed of speech, etc. A few centuries ago, dating was sometimes described as a "courtship ritual where young women entertained gentleman callers, usually in the home, under the watchful eye of a chaperone ," [8] but increasingly, in many Western countries, it became a self-initiated activity with two young people going out as a couple in public together.

Still, dating varies considerably by nation, custom, religious upbringing, technology, and social class, and important exceptions with regards to individual freedoms remain as many countries today still practice arranged marriages, request dowries, and forbid same-sex pairings.

Although in many countries, movies, meals, and meeting in coffeehouses and other places is now popular, as are advice books suggesting various strategies for men and women, [9] in other parts of the world, such as in South Asia and many parts of the Middle East, being alone in public as a couple with another person is not only frowned upon but can even lead to either person being socially ostracized. In the twentieth century, dating was sometimes seen as a precursor to marriage but it could also be considered as an end-in-itself, that is, an informal social activity akin to friendship.

It generally happened in that portion of a person's life before the age of marriage, [10] but as marriage became less permanent with the advent of divorce , dating could happen at other times in peoples lives as well.

People became more mobile. Cars extended the range of dating as well as enabled back-seat sexual exploration. In the mid-twentieth century, the advent of birth control as well as safer procedures for abortion changed the equation considerably, and there was less pressure to marry as a means for satisfying sexual urges. New types of relationships formed; it was possible for people to live together without marrying and without children.

Information about human sexuality grew, and with it an acceptance of all types of sexual orientations is becoming more common. Today, the institution of dating continues to evolve at a rapid rate with new possibilities and choices opening up particularly through online dating.

Social rules regarding dating vary considerably according to variables such as country, social class, race, religion, age, sexual orientation and gender.

Behavior patterns are generally unwritten and constantly changing. There are considerable differences between social and personal values. Each culture has particular patterns which determine such choices as whether the man asks the woman out, where people might meet, whether kissing is acceptable on a first date, the substance of conversation, who should pay for meals or entertainment, [16] [17] or whether splitting expenses is allowed.

Among the Karen people in Burma and Thailand , women are expected to write love poetry and give gifts to win over the man. For example, director Blake Edwards wanted to date singing star Julie Andrews , and he joked in parties about her persona by saying that her "endlessly cheerful governess" image from movies such as Mary Poppins and The Sound of Music gave her the image of possibly having "lilacs for pubic hair"; [19] Andrews appreciated his humor, sent him lilacs, dated him and later married him, and the couple stayed together for 41 years until his death in While the term dating has many meanings, the most common refers to a trial period in which two people explore whether to take the relationship further towards a more permanent relationship; in this sense, dating refers to the time when people are physically together in public as opposed to the earlier time period in which people are arranging the date, perhaps by corresponding by email or text or phone.

If two unmarried celebrities are seen in public together, they are often described as "dating" which means they were seen in public together, and it is not clear whether they are merely friends, exploring a more intimate relationship, or are romantically involved.

A related sense of the term is when two people have been out in public only a few times but have not yet committed to a relationship; in this sense, dating describes an initial trial period and can be contrasted with "being in a committed relationship".

Often physical characteristics, personality, financial status, and other aspects of the involved persons are judged and, as a result, feelings can be hurt and confidence shaken. Because of the uncertainty of the whole situation, the desire to be acceptable to the other person, and the possibility of rejection, dating can be very stressful for all parties involved.

Some studies have shown that dating tends to be extremely difficult for people with social anxiety disorder. While some of what happens on a date is guided by an understanding of basic, unspoken rules, there is considerable room to experiment, and there are numerous sources of advice available.

There are now more than businesses worldwide that offer dating coach services—with almost of those operating in the U. The copulatory gaze, looking lengthily at a new possible partner, brings you straight into a sparring scenario; you will stare for two to three seconds when you first spy each other, then look down or away before bringing your eyes in sync again.

This may be combined with displacement gestures, small repetitive fiddles that signal a desire to speed things up and make contact. When approaching a stranger you want to impress, exude confidence in your stance, even if you're on edge. Pull up to your full height in a subtle chest-thrust pose, which arches your back, puffs out your upper body and pushes out your buttocks.

Roll your shoulders back and down and relax your facial expression. There are numerous ways to meet potential dates, including blind dates, classified ads, dating websites, hobbies, holidays, office romance, social networking, speed dating, and others.

A Pew study in which examined Internet users in long-term relationships including marriage, found that many met by contacts at work or at school. There is a general perception that men and women approach dating differently, hence the reason why advice for each sex varies greatly, particularly when dispensed by popular magazines.

For example, it is a common belief that heterosexual men often seek women based on beauty and youth. All of these are examples of gender stereotypes which plague dating discourse and shape individuals' and societies' expectations of how heterosexual relationships should be navigated.

In addition to the detrimental effects of upholding limited views of relationships and sexual and romantic desires, stereotypes also lead to framing social problems in a problematic way. For example, some have noted that educated women in many countries including Italy and Russia , and the United States find it difficult to have a career as well as raise a family, prompting a number of writers to suggest how women should approach dating and how to time their careers and personal life.

The advice comes with the assumption that the work-life balance is inherently a "woman's problem. Accordingly, an issue regarding dating is the subject of career timing which generates controversy. Some views reflect a traditional notion of gender roles. For example, Danielle Crittenden in What Our Mothers Didn't Tell Us argued that having both a career and family at the same time was taxing and stressful for a woman; as a result, she suggested that women should date in their early twenties with a seriousness of purpose, marry when their relative beauty permitted them to find a reliable partner, have children, then return to work in their early thirties with kids in school; Crittenden acknowledged that splitting a career path with a ten-year baby-raising hiatus posed difficulties.

Columnist Maureen Dowd quoted comedian Bill Maher on the subject of differing dating agendas between men and women: In studies comparing children with heterosexual families and children with homosexual families, there have been no major differences noted; though some claims suggest that kids with homosexual parents end up more well adjusted than their peers with heterosexual parents, purportedly due to the lack of marginalizing gender roles in same-sex families.

It is increasingly common today, however, with new generations and in a growing number of countries, to frame the work-life balance issue as a social problem rather than a gender problem. With the advent of a changing workplace, the increased participation of women in the labor force , an increasing number of men who are picking up their share of parenting and housework, [50] and more governments and industries committing themselves to achieving gender equality, the question of whether or not, or when to start a family is slowly being recognized as an issue that touches or should touch both genders.

The prospect of love often entails anxiety, sometimes with a fear of commitment [51] and a fear of intimacy for persons of both sexes. There's something wonderful, I think, about taking chances on love and sex. Going out on a limb can be roller-coaster scary because none of us want to be rejected or to have our heart broken. But so what if that happens? I, for one, would rather fall flat on my face as I serenade my partner off-key and all in a bikini and a short little pool skirt than sit on the edge of the pool, dipping my toes in silence.

One dating adviser agreed that love is risky, and wrote that "There is truly only one real danger that we must concern ourselves with and that is closing our hearts to the possibility that love exists. What happens in the dating world can reflect larger currents within popular culture. For example, when the book The Rules appeared, it touched off media controversy about how men and women should relate to each other, with different positions taken by columnist Maureen Dowd of The New York Times [56] and British writer Kira Cochrane of The Guardian.

Since people dating often do not know each other well, there is the risk of violence , including date rape. Sara McCorquodale suggests that women meeting strangers on dates meet initially in busy public places, share details of upcoming dates with friends or family so they know where they'll be and who they'll be with, avoid revealing one's surname or address, and conducting searches on them on the Internet prior to the date.

Don't leave drinks unattended; have an exit plan if things go badly; and ask a friend to call you on your cell phone an hour into the date to ask how it's going. If you explain beautifully, a woman does not look to see whether you are handsome or not -- but listens more, so you can win her heart. That is why I advise our boys to read stories and watch movies more and to learn more beautiful phrases to tell girls. The Internet is shaping the way new generations date.

Facebook , Skype , Whatsapp , and other applications have made remote connections possible. Online dating tools are an alternate way to meet potential dates.

Dating customs and habits vary considerably throughout the world. The average duration of courtship before proceeding to engagement or marriage varies considerably throughout the world. According to one source, there are four ways that marriage can happen among the Nyangatom people: Asia is a mix of traditional approaches with involvement by parents and extended families such as arranged marriages as well as modern dating. Patterns of dating are changing in China, with increased modernization bumping into traditional ways.

One report in China Daily suggests that dating for Chinese university women is "difficult" and "takes work" and steals time away from academic advancement, and places women in a precarious position of having to balance personal success against traditional Chinese relationships. But in China, we study together. Like other women in my social circle, I have certain demands for a potential mate. He doesn't have to make much more than I do, but he must be doing at least as well as I am, and has to be compatible with me, both morally and spiritually He should also own an apartment instead of us buying one together.

Remember what Virginia Wolf [ sic ] said? Every woman should have a room of her own. The game show If You Are the One , titled after Chinese personal ads, featured provocative contestants making sexual allusions and the show reportedly ran afoul of authorities and had to change its approach. There are conflicting reports about dating in China's capital city. One account suggests that the dating scene in Beijing is "sad" with particular difficulties for expatriate Chinese women hoping to find romance.

Each year, November 11 has become an unofficial holiday [88] known as China's Singles' Day when singles are encouraged to make an extra effort to find a partner. In Arabic numerals, the day looks like "", that is, "like four single people standing together", and there was speculation that it originated in the late s when college students celebrated being single with "a little self-mockery" [88] but a differing explanation dates it back to events in the Roman Empire.

There is concern that young people's views of marriage have changed because of economic opportunities, with many choosing deliberately not to get married, [88] as well as young marrieds who have decided not to have children, or to postpone having them.

Jinguoyuan organized periodic matchmaking events often attended by parents. Chinese-style flirtatiousness is termed sajiao , best described as "to unleash coquettishness" with feminine voice, tender gestures, and girlish protestations.

Romantic love is more difficult during times of financial stress, and economic forces can encourage singles, particularly women, to select a partner primarily on financial considerations. Some men postpone marriage until their financial position is more secure and use wealth to help attract women. One trend is towards exclusive matchmaking events for the 'rich and powerful'; for example, an annual June event in Wuhan with expensive entry-ticket prices for men 99, RMB lets financially secure men choose so-called bikini brides based on their beauty and education , [92] and the financial exclusivity of the event was criticized by the official news outlet China Daily.

A brave lover in Beijing must be prepared to accept a paradigm shift to enjoy the cross-cultural dating experience. Relationships between students preparing for college are frowned upon by many parents in China. There was a report that sexual relations among middle schoolers in Guangzhou sometimes resulted in abortions. Indian dating is heavily influenced by the custom of arranged marriages which require little dating, although there are strong indications that the institution is undergoing change, and that love marriages are becoming more accepted as India becomes more intertwined with the rest of the world.

In the cities at least, it is becoming more accepted for two people to meet and try to find if there is compatibility.

The majority of Indian marriages are arranged by parents and relatives, and one estimate is that 7 of every 10 marriages are arranged. Writer Lavina Melwani described a happy marriage which had been arranged by the bride's father, and noted that during the engagement, the woman was allowed to go out with him before they were married on only one occasion; the couple married and found happiness. Until recently, Indian marriages had all the trappings of a business transaction involving two deal-making families, a hardboiled matchmaker and a vocal board of shareholders — concerned uncles and aunts.

The couple was almost incidental to the deal. They just dressed and showed up for the wedding ceremony. And after that the onus was on them to adjust to the 1, relatives, get to know each other and make the marriage work. Relationships in which dating is undertaken by two people, who choose their dates without parental involvement and sometimes carry on clandestine get-togethers, has become increasingly common.

When this leads to a wedding, the resulting unions are sometimes called love marriages. There are increasing instances when couples initiate contact on their own, particularly if they live in a foreign country; in one case, a couple met surreptitiously over a game of cards. Dating websites are gaining ground in India.

Writer Rupa Dev preferred websites which emphasized authenticity and screened people before entering their names into their databases, making it a safer environment overall, so that site users can have greater trust that it is safe to date others on the site. During the interval before marriage, whether it is an arranged or a love marriage, private detectives have been hired to check up on a prospective bride or groom, or to verify claims about a potential spouse made in newspaper advertising, and there are reports that such snooping is increasing.

Transsexuals and eunuchs have begun using Internet dating in some states in India. The practice of dating runs against some religious traditions, and the radical Hindu group Sri Ram Sena threatened to "force unwed couples" to marry, if they were discovered dating on Valentine's Day ; a fundamentalist leader said "drinking and dancing in bars and celebrating this day has nothing to do with Hindu traditions.

Another group, Akhil Bharatiya Hindu Mahasabha , threatened to do the same, for which it was severely mocked online [] and on the day after Valentine's Day , had protesters outside its Delhi headquarters, with people mockingly complaining that it did not fulfill its "promise", [] with some having come with materials for the wedding rituals. There is a type of courtship called Omiai in which parents hire a matchmaker to give resumes and pictures to potential mates for their approval, leading to a formal meeting with parents and matchmaker attending.

The reasons for dating in Korea are various. Research conducted by Saegye Daily showed that teenagers choose to date for reasons such as "to become more mature," "to gain consultation on worries, or troubles," or "to learn the difference between boys and girls," etc. Present Korean dating shows a changing attitude due to the influence of tradition and modernization. There are a lot of Confucian ideas and practices that still saturate South Korean culture and daily life as traditional values.

It is one of the old teachings of Confucianism [] and reveals its inclination toward conservatism. Most Koreans tend to regard dating as a precursor to marriage. There is no dating agency but the market for marriage agencies are growing continuously. Also, "Mat-sun", the blind date which is usually based on the premise of marriage, is held often among ages of late 20s to 30s.

However, the majority still takes getting into a relationship seriously. Dating in Korea is also considered a necessary activity supported by society. College students in their sophomore to junior year who have not been in a relationship feel anxious that they are falling behind amongst their peers.

Most of them try "sogaeting", going out on a blind date, for the first time to get into a relationship. Dating is a duty that most people feel they must take on to not seem incompetent. Where Are We Going? Dating has also been depicted to be an activity of fun and happiness. According to a survey by wedding consulting agency, men consider a physical relation as a catalyst of love, otherwise, women regard it as a confirmation of affection.

Adding to it, both Marriages and courtship in Pakistan are influenced by traditional cultural practices similar to those elsewhere in the Indian subcontinent as well as Muslim norms and manners. Illegitimate relationships before marriage are considered a social taboo and social interaction between unmarried men and women is encouraged at a modest and healthy level. Couples are usually wedded through either an arranged marriage or love marriage.

Love marriages are those in which the individuals have chosen a partner whom they like by their own choice prior to marriage, and usually occur with the consent of parents and family. Arranged marriages on the other hand are marriages which are set and agreed by the families or guardians of the two individuals where the couple may not have met before.

In either cases and in consistency with traditional marital practices, individuals who marry are persuaded to meet and talk to each other for some time before considering marrying so that they can check their compatibility. The original SDU, which controversially promoted marriages among university graduate singles, no longer exists today.

On 28 January , it was merged with SDS [Social Development Services], which just as controversially promoted marriages among non-graduate singles. The merged unit, SDN Social Development Network seeks to promote meaningful relationships, with marriage touted as a top life goal, among all resident [Singapore] singles within a conducive network environment of singles, relevant commercial and public entities.

One report suggested that in southern Taiwan , "traditional rules of courtship" still apply despite the influence of popular culture ; for example, men continue to take the initiative in forming relationships. What caused relationships to break up? In Britain, the term dating bears similarity to the American sense of the tentative exploratory part of a relationship.

If two people are going out together , it may mean they're dating but that their relationship has advanced to a relatively long-standing and sexual boyfriend-girlfriend relationship although they're not cohabiting. Although Britons are familiar with the term dating, the rituals surrounding courtship are somewhat different from those commonly found in North America. Writer Kira Cochrane advises daters to "get out there and meet people" while noting a trend of temporary suspension of marriage until an individual reaches his or her thirties.

She felt "clueless and unwanted", she wrote, and found advice books such as The Rules helpful. Online dating safety in the UK is a concern for authorities and individuals. While analysts such as Harald Martenstein and others suggest that it is easier for persons to initiate contact in America, many Germans view the American dating habits as "unspontaneous", "ridiculous" and "rigid".

Membership in voluntary associations is relatively high in German-speaking countries and these provided further chances for possible partners to meet. Strolling on Esplanades and Promenade walkways such as the one in Hamburg called the Jungfernstieg maidens way , have been another venue for introductions as early as the 19th century. Analyst Geoffrey Gorer described dating as an American idiosyncrasy focusing on youth of college age and expressed in activities such as American proms.

In contrast German speaking countries and the longstanding musical tradition there provided ample opportunity of persons of varying ages enjoying social dances, such as the Vienna Opera Ball and other occasions. The German term of Stelldichein as translated by Joachim Heinrich Campes is used to signify dating when the age of consent to marriage was relatively high. Could you relate to it at all?

Did it make you doubt yourself? Did any of it help validate and calm anything? Outside of that last question, was anything else I said deeply profound to you? Did I change your life? If I could give that advice, only speak up if somebody doubts their experience.

To know neither story is crazy as two people meet, two who saw something strange, when that is how you share that experience, the fact nobody believed them either is a saving grace, a sigh of relief. Thousands of years before the bible the Egyptians used to calculate the positions of the planets and stars, without a computer. Everybody so concerned over how the bricks of the pyramids were moved, that nobody cares to realize that literally nothing we have to cut with TODAY has the precision they did, so the world fights over how those bricks would have been moved science.

But cutting they never mention. They want to show you more. Nobody gives the spirit anything it values these days. But once upon a time a person actually noticed something spiritual reaching out to them, and being so ignored and invisible to us, has finally got one mere mortal to pay attention.

And the rest of the planet is a system to wrest that lovely morsel the spirit gave you and no other, so they can pull tricks over the people who did not know themselves. Some even used the excuse that they were just better, but in truth…. Corrupt history teaches corruption to anything that will listen, and it does so without us knowingly listening, and it always has. This is from etymon line. The original mythological sense is sometimes written daemon for purposes of distinction.

The Demon Star is Algol. Theres Socrates, he was considered one of the greatest minds in history, and he believed that we had Demons that watched over us, looked out for our backs, taught us lessons, provided for our growth and none of that is anywhere close to the automatic response people have to that word. But truth is, being divided as a species was their job. Those life forms previously celebrated are the same who were exiled.

But nothing that was also the serpent, synonymous with knowledge and wisdom, was dumb. Sort out your business at the end like the bible told us, look up what meant to Pythagoras, and realize you saw. And as much as I may have made an ass out of myself just to tiptoe around a point of how it comes across as crazy no matter what is said, or seen, or shown, because I am not very believable but my sources are the ones that arrange your atoms.

But they also respect what respects them. I request you say hello, I feel you now, thank you for being there. Either Socrates was batshit crazy, or possessed, or actual an imbecile……….

When people look at the sea, that horizon line is as straight as can be. But in another age, a mind could only know so certainly back then as to the facts about space, and Aristotle stood next to them on the shore, because despite the frsutration he must have had when somebody disagreed with him, knowing he is right.

He had to defame, and degrade his entire reputation, and it hung on the theory the earth was not flat, but round. So there he was, standing proudly, he had to convince people that the thing they saw with their own eyes, was not really true.

Promising the influential fortunes so they would influence the world into believing. Jokes on them right? People used to fight to retain the wisdom of the past.

Then at some point they fought to suppress it. Those that refused Christ were burned like witches. Tortured in the same fashion to auchwitz and the burning of their books and history sounds like hitler huh….. Their opinions will sound as if they deny God. Whenever you can slap a christian with that sort of story do it but only if you want to see the meaning of irony acted out in front of you like a game of charades. You heard your wake up call. To know when to try and when to not. But also we are loved.

So show them you believe in your experience enough to understand it was real. Make your action to read this and ponder and say hello inside your head because they hear every thought.

She had a right to fight, did very well given the circumstance, but a woman that wanted to fight and die for what she loved, like any man, happened to let them know that she heard God and he told her to. Pretty sure they treated it like she was evil AF. She died being lied to by the only thing she knew as God. Her truth was not known by any other, nobody could stick up for her.

Socrates would have mentioned the oracle inside us, Hermes would have told her it was her soul which everybody has but nobody today knows it used to be considered separate and aside from us. But all of those people forgot to remember why they feel like being born is a sin. Or that to be here is to be corrupted no matter how a life was lived.

But I did enough reading it was obvious. There are life forms out there that have no form to be. They experience life as you do. It hurts them to be doubted. Even more to go unnoticed and I thanked. Read the bible so you know the Devils Mode of operation, he wrote that book as the light and then when fairies and demons and dragons and all myth was looked at literally as fact and not metaphor, the entire world was swallowed by that, and then there be the Vatican.

One way to walk your life path beside God according to one dude who got it from a guy that heard it from his uncle, passed down for so many years that even the lies changed into truths sometimes, and after guys like Constantine and saintly men like sir Patrick went and removed anything of its true origins, no path home is very clear.

On any level, the ones that cannot see, have not heard, did not feel too, they are ignoring the hand the universe just extended within the last years. All are being called to wake up. Nothing is unanimous in all religions except the fact that we were created and so were other life forms at the same time and none of them give a truthful timeline for it, and none of them address the likelihood we have killed our planet before and came back like a pest according to the archeology books after the dinos were wiped out the only living mammal was a rodent.

A pest and despite the differences in location on the globe, or the year their religion formed. All of them are timed together to wrap it all up just now. Watch as so many more things are shown to you as you wake you get to laugh at it all and know the only thing you ever needed to do in life was go through hell so you could find heaven. Different truth, and apathetic to all disbelief myself knowing how my own mind reeled as a scientist that had to accept watching my hand draw letters without me moving it, or hearing them once the connection was strong enough for it.

Of course that means giving somebody else that seed of truth, so take that leaf from my book, take hearing voices as that pinch of understanding that you have meaning and worth according to divinity, so rest happily, albeit you should refrain from any ego, because, importantly noted, you only saw somethjng because they guided humans long enough so it may flourish as the wisdom passed into our world from the source but only when that wisdom flows in from the source.

Their window, the eyes, the window to the soul as they say, they are there. But sometimes on a hard day, crying and losing it you will sometimes feel comforted.

When they chose to be as good as God and as well behaved you feel their truth no matter the words. Its never been different since birth always with us, a memory from before birth. Feel pity none can relate to you, not shame. Feel empathy and all things will be shown in time. Nobody else will be allowed along for the ride. The world becomes new but only if you let it, we are supposed to take our stagnating caterpillar of world and build the butterfly.

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Sooo a lot of these comments are from the other party. I thought maybe it would help that I posted my position as I am the person who pushed my spouse away from me and tells him ugly things when I am asleep. I hope this helps as I read that some of you are thinking about leaving your relationships due to this problem. I have been with my current boyfriend for 16 months and we have had our problems in the past, but we talk about our problems and fix it by doing things differently.

I know how I feel about him and I feel because of what is said in my sleep, he questions how I feel about him. Just discuss it with your partner and be one hundred percent honest about who you are and what you think and feel and you too will progress forward and live happily ever after!

My husband is a former drill Sgt. The bad thing is that although for more than 20 years in my life my family and friends say I talk or act strange in the night.. I feel embarrased and wonder why??? I wish I can get help. My boyfriend does this after a day of drinking I already know what the night will bring but it doesnt bother me its actually kind of funny..

Lol hes ready to fight some imaginary person. Lol he says names too. Ok the names kind of piss me off but I know its all guys names so I let it go.. My boyfriend that i have been with said something werid in his sleep. He said how does that work and i asked him what and he then said nothing and mumbled about physicality and i asked what vehicles and he said no and then said it could be with vehicles!

What does this mean? According to my husband, last night, I randomly got up to turn the TV off while yelling that his show was explitive stupid and when he asked me if I was awake I said yes which I have no recollection of this when I woke up this morning. What the hell sleep-self? The first I knew about it was when I was a kid and my younger brother recorded me talking and answering his questions in my sleep.

He thought it was hilarious but it freaked me right out and I couldnt listen to the whole recording. Talking in my sleep has caused me trouble lots of times. I can say anything, I guess, and some of it is apparently so bad that the poor person is unable to repeat it.

I have had arguments with partners over it. Really not a nice experience for either party. Also, I have to avoid any medication that interferes with the way you sleep, either makes you sleep or keeps you awake, both are bad for me. I have always talked in my sleep , I answer coherently and I have conversations with my husband.

I have done this since I was a small child. I also kick my husband and hit in my sleep. I have no memory of it at all. He is not being logical when he gets mad at me over it. This hurts my life. How do I help it naturally? When my husband drinks more than his usual, at night he becomes angry and very mean. My wife and I have been together for over 34 years for the past year and a half she has been talking in her sleep about a previous lover she had for a few months when she thought she wanted another man and not me.

Tongues my boyfriend of almost a year was sleep talking. Which I know about. But tonight he freaked me out because I woke up to him eating something. I asked him if he was eating something he told me it was cheese. Then he told me it was a bottle cap! And I asked where it went and he said I dont know. My boyfriend was sleep talking we have been together for almost a year.

We have a son together. And tonight he woke me up because it sounded like he was chewing on something. I asked him what it was and he said cheese. Then he said it was a bottle cap. And then started raising his voice at me. What should I do??? When he falls asleep on the couch and I try to wake him up he gets really aggressive starts swearing at me and hurting me but again he has no idea he is doing it. I completely understand how you feel.

I have been going thru the same kind of emotional torture for years now. Its tothe point that I am so sleep deprived on a regular basis that I cant remember what a normalnight was like. I start to get jitteryand nervouseand we just dont talk about it. Or anything else for that matter.

I cry lying right next to him and he just rolls further away and continues his coversations. Im notconvinced hes even asleep half the time. He trys to be sure he has a pillow right in front of hi mouth trying to muffle it i guess. But it hurts even more that he dosent seem concerned about what its doing to me.

Im a walking zombie. The next day, if i bring it up, it starts a fight. Be never beings it up even when its obviouse that im upset. He will literally talk about the weather. Oh by te way, we have been married for 36 years have 2grown kids and 3 grandkids. Im about to break up my entire family over this. Because i cant take it anymore. He dosent seem tocare.

His eyes are open but he dosent remember it but it hurts me and he says he didnt mean any of it but it happens every night. Its affecting us because its every night. I mumble, talk coherently, and even yell in my sleep. I am usually acting out my dream and suddenly I can hear myself and I wake up and turn over and go back to sleep. Does anyone else experience that?

Where they wake up mid sleep talk or walk? Some times i sit and the edge of bed in my sleep and bang head of wall and rock my selve in my sleep and raise my arm in my sleep and laught and my bf catches me and tells me bout it ive feel outa bed alot doing it because i throw my selve in my sleep sometimes. Sometimes my sleep talking wakes me up lol! I also laugh and cry aloud while asleep. My husband gets mad at me at least twice a year for saying another mans name while sleeping.

Once I woke up mid-dream only to find my husband staring at me and trying to absolve himself from anything dream hubby did. Just forewarn anyone who shares a room with you. I only been married 2 years but been together for 3. My husband talks Arabic in his sleep and we speak English. I recorded him and took it to someone to find out what he was saying.

His a mechanic and deals with men and women all day long. But bring your customers to bed with you is very depressing ,especially when you hear the same name ever time you go to lay next to him. Hearing not right now my wife is here or being pushing you away at night is because he is talking in his sleep hurts. Asking him about starts a fight.

So my bf talks in his sleep…. Who the ef is she? Usually, I shrug it off but this was ridiculous. I have suspected that things were amiss for a short while and this incident offers up some insight to his dirty thoughts. Sometimes people say things they used to say all the time. The name could have been someone who frequently went to the bar and he remembered her name.

My boyfriend sleep talks all the time. Half of the time its nonsence or he remembers what i said to him a couple days ago and repeats it. Its a about what the brain remembers. I wouldnt be too worried. My fiance talks every night in his sleep and sometimes getting up acting in a hostel way asking were his pistol is picking up pillows slamming them back on the bed sitting up straight looking at me with his fist in a ball i try to talk to him but normaly he does not respond back.

I am hoping someone else may be in a similar situation and can offer some advice. My partner has all of the above.. I have many funny stories but mostly my sleep is distrupted and I am uncertain of what will happen next. I am still yet to witness a night terror. When we first got together he never even told me he had sleeping problems, I just woke up one night to him with his hands around my throat and he was yelling..

In the last few months I have woken several times to him trying to have sex with me. He will even get angry at me and threaten to leave me if I make him leave the room to sleep somewhere else etc. I have a history of sexual abuse and I am finding it very hard to seperate the two in my mind because of old hurts and feelings re surfacing but he is not very empathetic of these as he thinks I am comparing him to a monster and making it all up etc.

How do I talk to him without accusing him but also let him know my concerns? Am I being unreasonable as he has no control over this? Thanks in advance for any input. Given the unapologetic nature of his response it sounds like he may be using his sleep talking to get out of legitimately answering for his behavior in bed.

No one should have to deal with this, much less a survivor of sexual abuse. I am not inferring that this has happened to you, but even married people can rape their significant others.

Please take care of yourself, and know it is not your fault. Talk to him about doing a sleep study his doctor can refer him - it saved my relationship!

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