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We've gathered knowledgeable, dedicated divorce experts from a variety of fields to lend their advice and perspectives. Our experts include lawyers, healthcare professionals, certified professionals, and everyday women with insight into the topics that will help you stay empowered. Has your loving and affectionate child suddenly become unrecognizable to you? Does your child make you feel like you are the worst parent in the world? If so, your former spouse may be turning your child against you.

Known as parental alienation or parental alienation syndrome, simply put it means your ex is manipulating and pressuring your kid to reject you. Part 2 of this series will give you the tools to recapture your healthy relationship with your child. But first you need to arm yourself with knowledge. How does parental alienation work and how to do you spot it?

Typically, your child's pattern of rejection results when your ex engages in destructive acts such as:. Parental alienation occurs often, but not always, in the context of divorce and custody battles.

No one knows how many children are exposed to parental alienation or show signs of the parental alienation syndrome, but we do know that it can happen to mothers as well as fathers, to custodial parents as well as non-custodial parents and to kids as young as toddlers or as old as teens. It is marked by sudden changes in your child's interactions with you and you'll see new personality traits begin to emerge.

Your child is filled with animosity toward you. When confronted and reminded of the good times you two once shared, she insists you two NEVER had a good relationship — although you know that is not true. Suddenly, your once-loving and affectionate child seems to fear and, in some cases, despise you.

He may even be reluctant to share a meal with you as though merely being in your presence is unbearable. When you question this, your child gives you frivolous and absurd reasons for this newfound negativity. It's all your fault. Your child acts as if the other parent can do no wrong. Everything the other parent does is perfect in his eyes — something your child never seemed to feel about your ex during the marriage.

Your child seems to forgive your ex — even the most inexcusable behavior — while ridiculing you for minor flaws and infractions. Yeah, what he said. Your child consistently sides with your ex. And it seems she is following a script when she is talking about you, using some of the same labels your ex has used to describe you. He will repeat the same words and phrases, as if he is relying on words that are not his own and may have been rehearsed beforehand.

Family ties no longer bind. Your child shows no guilt about her shabby treatment of you. And she not only rejects you, but by extension, your family as well. Formerly beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents are now shunned. And your child doesn't want to attend important family events such as weddings, reunions, even funerals. Your child vehemently denies being influenced by your ex.

When you note that he is using words and phrases that appear to parrot the other parent, your child dismisses you. In fact, he scoffs at the idea of being coached by anyone. Check out Part Two of this series: My finance is going through this as we speak not only is his ex wife keeping children away his ex girfriend is keeping his daughter away from us do to the fact that he is finally happy and they cant stand it. The ex girlfriend and ex wife are best friends and his daughter isnt even with the mother she ships her off to the ex wife to keep her away from us she is only 7 years old.

They all tell this precious lady that the baby we are carrying is to replace her and that the baby is going to die. Why would anybody say such things to a child of any age it breaks our hearts. The mother of this lady is no good she doesnt bathe the child like she should doesnt care for her at all why even have her I have been divorced since and my x-wife has turn my three kids against me by telling them that i wanted her to have abortion and that was not true that we never even talked about that.

For five years when i leaved out of state i would travel 6 hrs both ways to see my kids every other weekend for visitation and many times i would show up at my x house and they would not be home so i came all that distance for no reason or if she ways home she would tell me that she that she forgot that it was my time for a visit when i was to call them on Wednesday night they would not answer the phone.

I have so much that i could tell you but it would be a Book and all i am looking for is some help to get these kids to get out of her control and just love me. My X-wife left me and everything was find until i started dating someone else and then when i got married all hell broke loose I have always tried to be in the kids life and always paid my child support when they was younger and never was late and she has told the kids that i never paid child support and they believe everything she has told them.

I am so sorry. It is time to take him to court. They are your children as much as his. I hope you seek legal counse for all of your sakes. You are the Mother!!! This happened to me, and now I have to relationship or contact with my 16 yr old daughter. Her mother single handedly put a wedge between us. Nothing hurts more then being pushed out of your daughters life I miss you when I love you sara!!!! God please help me get her back Hi I've got to kids I don't see and I tryed everything court contract centre but still managed to stop me seeing them I've not seem in 3 years and there is not a day or min that I think of them.

My ex took my children when I was down and out but I was the only one supporting them. Got no maintenance and never sued him for it. He had them for a weekend visit only as they permqnently lived with me.

He never brought them home. Moved them almost km away from me. He has manipulated them ao badly that they now choose to be with him. Communicatiin is very hard as it is one sided. I dont even feel like a mother anymore. Yes my daughter is going through this exact thing with her son 14 and daughter12 years old. The father took the kids to dfs all three children and accused her of maultipal things. She swears never happened.

One of the accusations came back the kids lied, two different stories. The youngest daughter said mommies boyfriend touched her.

So I grandma asked her I she was ever touched in her privates. Her remark was he didn't touch me there, I told daddy he didn't touch me there , but he wouldn't listen. My daughter is now going through a custody battle. My son turns 47 this month. He has become very cold towards me, he has never been overly warm or affectionate to his father or I since he married.

However he seems almost hostile towards me and I know his father phones him secretly and when my sons phone she never tells me. I do know my son phones my husband when he has motor car problems as my husband is that business. But whenever he has phoned us it is rarely from his home. Always outside from his car or at a shopping centre. I have the feeling my husband is trying to exclude me from their conversations as he seems very furtive.

I do have another son overseas and whenever we visit them he seems to try and exclude me. He has to be the main Man. Am I being too sensitve? Knowing him as well as I do I really don't think so.

How do I deal with this as I am feeling quite betrayed as my husband is sweetness itself to me, but if anyone else is around he has to be the centre of it all. I don't wish anyone to go through this the Laws need to be change and better to help the victim instead of the aggressor who has more power over their victim by using the children and controlling everyone in the system when they have money to hire attorney and to get away with by getting a DV restraining orders do more harm to the children and the victim the emotional hurt to traumatizing to the hate the victim has to go through and one would ask did you ever reach out for help yes many times shelters where full and they would tell me he is just angry and things be ok because you all in counseling.

DV restraining order need to have prove to get one and should be investigate done. If children service involved then they meaning the courts and the attorney of the person who is requesting of DV restraining order must contact the case worker and the supervisor to make sure the facts add up if the facts don't then their should be legal consequence on filling a faults one. I go through shock and feeling so hated not love by him love by his actions and behavior speak louder then words and the same for those who stand by him is no different, then them doing this with him.

No one seems to care the well being of my children it is emotional abused to keep a parent wrongfully away from the other parent by using the court system the laws must be change for the welfare of the children mental well being anyone wants to help change the law please contact me you never know it might be someone you love is going through this or a friend or family member be the voice for the children no parent should ever lie to take the children away from the other parent.

Please can someone answer this question for so many mums and dads in this position. Why dont the authorities recognise this and intervene? The cycle of abuse still continues and is more devastating than having stayed in an abusive marriage because at least you still have the kids. The heartbreak, hurt and loss is inconsolable. End up losing the very children you were trying to protect and have to watch it happen. How incredibly sad to see all these comments.. I am right smack in the middle of experiencing both being alienated, and wanting to be the 'alienator.

My specific alienators I have 4 children to 2 fathers, amidst 1 divorce are extremely abusive, sociopathic I finally get it now!! But this is just their 'last hurrah,' though one they will do whatever it takes to never let go of.. They've taken notes from each other.. Knowing this is their fuel..

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Ascending and turning our spitfires to face them, heading straight for them I press down my guns.. Acid Head By Tourniquet. About the dangers of substance abuse and the hallucinogenic drug LSD.

Water cleans the system. Acid eats the flesh. Squirm yourself much deeper into the pit of selfishness. The burn of death is what you crave Choose sides or run for your life. Tonight the riots begin. On the back streets of America they kill the dream of America.

Little black girl gets assaulted. Ain't no reason why Adam's Song By blink Song deals with a teenager who is depressed and starts to have suicidal thoughts.

I laughed the loudest who'd have known? I'm too depressed to go on. You'll be sorry when I'm gone Days when I still felt alive Give all my things to all my friends Please tell mom this is not her fault Addicted To Chaos By Megadeth. About lead singer Dave Mustaine's drug counselor who finally helped him get sober after numerous attempts at rehabilitation.

Sadly the counselor lost his life to a cocaine overdose. Only yesterday they told me you were gone Lights shined on my path. Turned bad days into good Where's the helping hand? From the concept album "Dancing For Mental Health" performed and produced by portrait photographer Lynn Goldsmith in collaboration with Sting, Steve Winwood, Todd Rundgren and other recording artists. Songs on the album promote a positive mental health message and deal with the importance of goal setting, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-image, and not being afraid to strive for your dreams and desires.

You are an important person. You have talents and abilities no one else has The power to do anything you can imagine is within you when you discover your real self by practicing a few simple laws of success It's you make it habit. Make it happen only you A human rights song about the plight of women in Islamic nations. Your place of birth has many names.

A woman here is born to live in misery and shame Dreams you'll surely need child to help you through your life African By Peter Tosh. Song is about self determination , preserving cultural identity, promoting Black Nationalism , and building a sense of community, pride, and unity among people of African descent. Don't mind your nationality, you have got the identity of an African. Don't mind your complexion, there is no rejection, you're an African After All By Dar Williams. A person coping with depression.

And it felt like a winter machine That you go through and then You catch your breath and winter starts again And everyone else is spring bound And when I chose to live There was no joy, it's just a line I crossed It wasn't worth the pain my death would cost So I was not lost or found After Forever By Black Sabbath.

Song deals with issues related to religious beliefs and questions about the after life. Useful for a class on theology and religious studies.

Have you ever thought about your soul, can it be saved? Or perhaps you think that when you're dead you just stay in your grave. Is God just a thought within your head or is he part of you? Is Christ just a name that you read in a book when you were in school?

Well I've seen the truth, yes I've seen the light and I've changed my ways. And I'll be prepared when you're lonely and scared at the end of our days The Aftermath By Iron Maiden.

In the mud and rain. What are we fighting for? Is it worth the pain? Is it worth dying for? Who will take the blame? Why did they make a war? Mix in the dirt of brother's blood Song is about the first bombing of a civilian target by an enemy aircraft. In the air there's plane headed for the heart of the Dolphin Human activity damaging the environment , "Look at mother nature on the run in the nineteen seventies After The Reign By Blackfoot. About the displacement and relocation of Native American peoples in North America.

Song is about the aftermath of the sinking of the luxury liner the Titanic on April , It told a sad new story, sixteen hundred had gone to rest. Captain Smith surely must have been a-drinking. Not knowing that he was doing wrong.

He tried to raise a record and let the Titanic down You're just another number in military schemes. They marched you in a uniform, you wore against your will. With lies of hope and glory, they taught you how to kill After The War By Warlock. Song is about the environment on a battlefield after a major battle or war has taken place. No singing of a bird, rustle of a tree A person has difficulty "letting go" and moving on from a relationship. But to wait for you, is all I can do and that's what I've got to face.

Take a good look at me now, cos I'll still be standing here. And you coming back to me is against all odds. It's the chance I've gotta take Agent Orange By Sodom. About agent orange , a herbicide that was used by the United States government during the Vietnam War. Many Vietnam vets have developed health complications or have died because of their exposure to this herbicide.

Spray down the death. Cancer creeps into their innocent souls. Memorials of flesh and blood Poisoned 'til the end of their lives. About the health hazards of agent orange , a herbicide used in the Vietnam War. This agent orange from Vietnam, we carry it with us still. It stays inside for years and years before it starts to kill.

You might get cancer of the liver, you might get cancer of the skin. A complex song about many health issues. References made to risk taking, acquired immune deficiency syndrome, unprotected sex, low self esteem, and lack of respect for self and body.

She is looking for the kisses that she never got at home And if she ends up with some dirty hot disease. It's a small price she pays for the need to be pleased Our heroine like many others is now dead Yo, yo, now that millions is dead I'm considered widespread Number one on the top ten and considered a world wide threat H-I-V will progress to A-I-D-S And transform your warm blooded bones to dry flesh By stressing the immune system Promiscuous men and women trying to avoid getting the micro-organism in them from running up in it raw Ready and willing, a couple of minutes of a good feeling is what'll kill them Break ya body down in steps, breath for breath In the hospital wit less then a dozen T-cells left About devotion and the power of love over time, and across the miles.

No matter where you are, no matter how far. Just call my name, I'll be there in a hurry Although we are miles apart, if you ever need a helping hand, I'll be there on the double as fast as I can There ain't no mountain high enough , Ain't no valley low enough , Ain't no river wide enough. To keep me from getting to you Song promotes abstinence, respecting yourself and your body and waiting to become sexually active. Ain't no safe way anymore. You got people with one, two, three, or four.

Abstinence rules, playing is for fools. The one who abstains is the one who's cool About having a positive outlook on life, striving for your goals and not letting negative people influence your way of thinking. I know you know someone that has a negative vow Ask them where they are going, they don't know. But we won't let nothin' hold us back We're gonna polish up our act! Alainis Morissette By Wesley Willis.

A tongue-in-cheek song about Canadian musician Alainis Morissette. You are a rock legend to the max You are a rocking maniac. You are a singing hyena. About the Battle of the Alamo which began on February 23, in the state of Texas. Fought to save the Alamo, the battle twelve days long The last brave man fought to the end, the battle it was lost.

Fought to save the Alamo, their lives was what it cost The Alamo By Johnny Cash. Alcohol By Barenaked Ladies. Alcohol, a party time necessity. Alcohol, alternative to feeling like yourself. O alcohol, I still drink to your health To walk the fine line between self control and self abuse O alcohol, would you please forgive me? For while I cannot love myself I'll use something else Alcohol By The Kinks.

A well respected and successful individual turns to alcohol to deal with life's stresses and ends up ruining his marriage and life. But the pressures at the office and his socialite engagements He'll drink anything as long as all his troubles disappear. But he messed up his life and he beat up his wife Oh, demon alcohol, sad memories I cannot recall About the negative effects associated with abusing alcohol.

References made to hangovers, violence, intoxication and driving while intoxicated. Bottles were breakin' and the windows too. All because someone drank too much brew Fight and shout and cause a brawl, when you're out drinkin' that alcohol Tomorrow mornin' I'll be sick as a dog The meanest trip is alcohol A man laments over his drinking problem and realizes that death is imminent if he doesn't overcome his addiction.

Sure, Lord's killing me If I don't quit drinking it every morning, sure gonna kill me dead Singers mentioned include Hank Williams Sr. They pulled poor old Hank Williams Sr.

He ended up on alcohol and pills Elvis Presley, he came up from Jackson. Janis Joplin, she was wild and reckless The story just goes on and on About "unhealthy escapism", using substances in order to forget your problems. Some dead flowers and a bottle of vodka on the kitchen table. Flowers for the good times and booze for the bad Alcohol in the bloodstream, 'bout the best I can do 'til I forget about you Alcohol is the root of all evil Every bad thing that happened to me would not have occured if alcohol wasn't involved A relationship is threatened as a person tries to deal with their partner's addiction to alcohol.

Even though I threaten that I'm never coming back again The Alcoholik By Superjoint Ritual. Blow through the prime of life. Numb all the senses down Tribute to legendary ruler, Alexander The Great. Was born a son to Philip of Macedon, the legend his name was Alexander Alex Chilton By The Repacements.

Children by the million sing for Alex Chilton when he comes 'rond I never travel far without a little Big Star Alice's Restaurant By Arlo Guthrie. Inspired by actual events taking place in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. Related topics include; the military draft, Vietnam War, protest movements, crime and punishment, pollution, Thanksgiving traditions.

Alimony By "Weird Al" Yankovic. About one of the many unpleasurable results of a divorce. Work at three jobs just to stay in debt now. Well first she took my nest egg and then she took my nest. A song of acceptance, hope , and optimism. I'm thankful for every breath I take. I won't take it all for granted.

So I learn from my mistakes. It's beyond my control Whatever happens in this lifetime Alive By Van Zant. Song is about making the most of your time here on Earth and being thankful for what you have. I can feel it rushing through me. It's the miracle of life. Ain't it good to be alive Song is about growing old alone and being forgotten by your immediate family. But mostly, no one comes 'cept on the weekends. Ruby Wilson lives in where she spends most of her time Some days sure are lonely days and time can move too slow.

When you're all dressed up with no where to go Allentown By Billy Joel. Song is about economic decline and downsizing of American industry. Focuses on closing of steel mills in Allentown, PA. Out in Bethlehem they're killing time filling out forms, standing in line Song is about environmental awareness and the serenity and beauty of nature.

Did you ever see the beauty of the hills of Carolina? Or the sweetness of the grass of Tennesee? Did you ever stop to think about the air you're breathin'? I can see the concrete slowly creepin'. Lord take me before they're gone Song was written in the 's after Wall Street crashed sending people to the poor house and sparking the Great Depression. Now this is the truth and it certainly exposes that Wall Street's proposition is not all roses. I put up my money to win some more.

I lost it all and it left me sore This song is about living a healthy lifestyle, striving for goals, the importance of friendship and remaining drug and alcohol free. And I feel proud of all my friends when I see them working for their dreams We intend to always stay drug free. It's the only way to be Song is about unhealthy risk taking, living life in the fast lane and suffering the consequences.

According to the artist, " You never walked away When I needed you to stay Or made me feel I'm not the one There've been no broken vows And there reason we're here now Is all the things we've never done We've never grown apart You never broke my heart With secrets that you've kept me from We've never been untrue And I'm still here with you Through all the things we've never done.

Tribute song to John Lennon. All those years ago You were the one who imagined it all All those years ago. Deep in the darkest night I send out a prayer to you Now in the world of light Certain individuals have emerged from the crowd. Reminding us of how far a human being can go No one is holding you back but you.

There is no excuse for not getting what you want A positive song about the power and importance of love. Nothing you can sing that can't be sung. Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game All you need is love. Love is all you need A protest song recorded in the late 's during the hippie movement when long haired people were viewed as rebels. It happened just the other day I feel like letting my freak flag fly Alone By Blues Traveler. This song is about the hurt of unrequited love and the pain of rejection.

She began to cry. She said she needed a friend. I said I'll try I'd loved her always. Let a friendship grow. I tried to keep her, that's what made her go.. A love like hers ain't meant for guys like me Song was written in honor of artist's daughter, Emily. You were sent to me by angels up above, I'm certain Along came you to teach me about love You're here to show me what love can be Tribute to the Nile river.

Along the Nile The pyramids, Reminded us of ancestors And what they did. Along the Nile My people live Because of all The life it gives Already One By Neil Young.

A relationship or marriage has ended but the couple are still joined or bound by a common interest , their child. I can't forget how love let me down Every time I look in his face I can't believe how love lasts a while But we're already one. Now only time can come between us. Always By Bon Jovi. A person has a difficult time accepting or coming to terms with the end of a relationship. He feels that his love for the other person will last forever.

It's been raining since you left me, now I'm drowning in the flood. You see I've always been a fighter but without you I give up I'll be there till the stars don't shine. Till the heavens burst and the words don't rhyme. I know when I die you'll be on my mind.

And I love you, always This song is about optimism and the power of positive thinking. From the Monty Python film "Life of Brian" this song stands out in stark contrast to the "heavy, political stuff" normally associated with the artist. If life seems jolly rotten, there's something you've forgotten And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing When you're feeling in the dumps, don't be silly chumps Just purse your lips and whistle, that's the thing, and Always look on the bright side of life Always look on the bright side of life About regret, taking someone's love for granted, and trying to redeem yourself.

And maybe I didn't treat you quite as good as I should have And I guess I never told you I'm so happy that you're mine. Little things I should of said and done. I just never took the time Always the Cause By Al Stewart. Song is about the Spanish Civil War and the people who fought for the "Cause" of democracy. Still hope won't be denied. There was always the Cause. There was always the Cause Setbacks come at every turn.

New ways are hard to learn. Tonight I saw Guernica burn Always Tomorrow By Gloria Estefan. Song is about optimism, having a positive outlook on life and believing in yourself and others. Instead of just giving up, I use the power at my command I'll face whatever comes my way, savor each moment of the day. Love as many people as I can along the way That's why there's always tomorrow to start all over again This song is a tribute to Sir Thomas More , song deals with the rule of law , the legitimacy of authority, and staying true to your conscience or principles.

Henry Plantagenet still looks for someone to bring good news in his hour of doubt. While Thomas More waits in the Tower of London watching the sands running out. And measures the hours out from here to oblivion in actions that can't be undone So what if you reached the age of reason only to find there was no reprieve? Would you still be a man for all seasons or would you just disbelieve?

Look What They've Done to You Inspired by actual events. On February 4, four NYC police officers fired 41 shots at unarmed Guinean immigrant Amadou Diallo striking him 19 times and killing him in the entrance way of his apartment.

John Wayne shooters rockin' hard dressed in blue. Abner Louima and now Amadou countless others paid the price for you Song By Phil Ochs. We will fight against disease when the money comes with ease. And when we get together we say hooray for A. If you can't afford my bill, don't tell me you're ill Every day we specialize more and more. But we really love to stitch the diseases of the rich. We are sure there is a clinic for the poor Song is about the cycle of drug addiction, hitting "rock bottom", and then working towards recovery.

When I lost my grip and I hit the floor. Yeah, I thought I could leave but couldn't get out the door. I was so sick and tired of livin' a lie. I was wishing that I would die. With the blink of an eye you finally see the light When the moment arrives you know you'll be alright About Amelia Earhart , an American aviatrix who was one of the world's most celebrated and the first to fly alone over the Atlantic Ocean Amelia Earhart flying that sad day.

With her partner Capt. Noonan on the second of July. Her plane fell in the ocean, far away According to the artist I wrote this indirectly for Kurt Cobain, but more precisely for the angst he represented. But even more exactly for the hopelessness so many felt after his death. Where's my golden one? Where's my hope now that my heroes have gone?

Pieces of us die everyday Song is about how the hopes, dreams and ideals of many American people have not been realized. New world, new people. New dreams for all of the children.

Back in the summer of ' I met a young girl, her heart was in flames War had changed her whole world. Her daddy died in Vietnam. She lost her husband in Lebanon And she saw hungry people in the streets. Young mothers who could not eat And it all goes on. Yeah, the dreams go on America By Neil Diamond. Song is about immigration and how our country is seen as a melting pot.

On the boats and on the planes. They're coming to America Freedom's light burning warm Everytime that flag's unfurled. America, America By L. About the displacement of Native Americans as the white man slowly took everything they had. You conquered what you called a savage people.

Drove them to their knees beneath pointed steeples. You stripped them of their great and noble spirit A politician or public figure , caught in the act. Then they caught you with the girl next door, people's money piled on the floor, accusations that you try to deny, revelations and rumours begin to fly Reporters crowd around your house. Going through your garbage like a pack of hounds Song was written as an inspiration for our American people to never stop striving for peace and prosperity.

Dream on children, dream on. Don't let anybody tell you the dream is gone. As long as there's a God Above. Keep praying we never wake up.

Keep on dreaming the American dream American Heroes By Adam Wyle. A response song to the September 11th tragedy in New York City. What a mistake they have made. Take for granted American people today. Within the scene you look around.

All the love with both hands out This parody tours the human history of determining the value of pi. Song is a tribute to the people and cultures who contributed to our understanding of pi.

In the Hebrew Bible we do see the circle ratio appears as three The Chinese got it really keen: More joined the action with arctan series and continued fractions I can't remember if I cried When I read about his widowed bride But something touched me deep inside, The day the music died.

Inspired by actual events , this controversial song includes important political and social commentary dealing with race and the criminal justice system in America. Lena gets her son ready for school. She says now on these streets Charles you got to understand the rules. Promise me if an officer stops you'll always be polite. Never ever run away and promise mama you'll keep your hands in sight The secret my friend. You can get killed just for living in your American skin American Triangle By Elton John.

Song was written as a tribute to Matthew Shepard the victim of a brutal and vicious hate crime. Don't make no sense. I've seen a scarecrow wrapped in wire. Left to die on a high ridge fence It's a cold wind blowing.

This song is about excessive corporate sponsorships and the commercialization of baseball. There's the NBC Peacock right fielder He threw the Exxon's runner out in the dirt And you really can't tell Who's playing for Shell 'Cause they've all got different logos on their shirts It's the sport that built this country A great pitch by any other name and it won't take long to sell you on America's national game Bank America's national game".

America's Unsung Heroes By L. Song is a tribute to Native Americans. References made to many Native American tribes. The Cheyenne, Apache, Cherokee and Navaho Wanted to only live in peace.

For starvation and deprivation of their lands to cease A song of patriotism. Proceeds from the song will aid the Red Cross. America, the land of freedom.

Still the home of the brave A song of patriotism and hope. Our flag is up, the stock markets are down. But we're all united from the county to the town. About achieving success in life and losing jealous friends because of it. And it's so strange when you get just a little money. Your so called friends want to act just a little funny. He thinks you changed because of a dollar sign A man neglects his wife as he climbs the ladder of success.

To gain the world and lose our love is too high a price to pay. A parody song of Coolio's "Gangsta's Paradise". A satire of Amish culture , with numerous references to specific beliefs and practices. But that's just perfect for an Amish like me, Ya know, I shun fancy things like electricity At 4: If you come to visit, you'll be bored to tears We haven't even paid the phone bill in years Hitchin' up the buggy, churnin' lots of butter Raise a barn on Monday, soon I'll raise anutter Among The Living By Anthrax.

This song is said to be inspired by the Stephen King novel, The Stand. With some help from Captain Trips, he'll bring the world down to his knees. He'll show them all his power.

It pulses through his ice cold blood, a whole world to devour! Amoreena By Elton John. From the "Dog Day Afternoon" soundtrack this song is about yearning and desire. Amphetamine Annie By Canned Heat. About the dangers associated with the use of the stimulant drug amphetamines. References made to paranoia and the health consequences of drug use. They call her amphetamine Annie Your mind might think it's flying baby on those little pills. But you oughta know it's dyin' 'cause speed kills AM Radio By Everclear.

Song is a flashback to the 's with references made to am radio, eight track tapes and popular culture of that era. Just picture yourself on a beautiful day. With the big bell bottoms and groovy long hair You could hear the music on the am radio By The Beach Boys.

Song is a tribute to many of the fun packed amusement parks across the United States. You'll crash and burn in the bumper cars at Jersey's steel pier. You'll crack'em up when you stand in front of all the crazy mirrors Let's take your car and mess around at the park all day Anagram for Mongo By Rush.

A fun tribute to the anagram. The letters of one word in each line of the song are rearranged to form other words. End the need for Eden. Chase the dreams of merchandise. There is tic and toc in atomic. Leaders make a deal Miracles will have their claimers. More will bow to Rome Ana's Song By Silverchair. Lead singer Daniel Johns wrote this song after being diagnosed with anorexia.

Only a small percentage of anorexics are males. In my head the flesh seems thicker And you're my obsession I love you to the bones Like an anorexic life Song is about corruption of government and the justice system. Halls of Justice painted green, money talking Angel Dust By Sodom. About the dangerous drug angel dust or as it is also called PCP.

References to drug addiction. Searching, hoping for the right connection coz I need it Need a shot to get me through the day About sacrifice, and the temporary, sometimes circumstantial nature of love. If you would not have fallen then I would not have found you And I patched up your broken wings And I knew someday that you would fly away So leave me if you need to. I'd rather see you up than see you down Angel Of Death By Slayer.

Known to have performed pseudo-medical and scientific experiments on many of the victims. Slow death, immense decay. Showers that cleanse you of your life Human mice, for the Angel of Death Sadistic surgeon of demise Destroying without mercy to benefit the Aryan race Song is about the sixteenth century prophet Nostradamus who was believed to have predicted many of the great catastrophies fires, earthquakes, weather disturbances that occured in the twentieth century.

In the sixteenth century there was a French philosopher by the name of Nostradamus. He prophesized that in the late twentieth century an angel of death shall waste this land Angel Of Harlem By U2.

This song is a tribute to singer Billie Holiday. So long Angel of Harlem Blue light on the avenue God knows they got to you An empty glass, the lady sings Eyes swollen like a bee sting Blinded you lost your way Artist wrote this song from the point of view of Lynyrd Skynyrd members and what they may have been thinking right before their plane crashed.

These angels I see in the trees are waiting for me. The engines have stopped now. We all know we are going down Artist wrote this song for her two brothers, Alan and Shawn, who died from cystic fibrosis. They were angels in waiting. Waiting for wings to fly from this world. Away from their pain Sometimes the body is weaker than the soul This song is a tribute to Annie Jump Cannon the woman who developed the system for classifying stellar spectra.

She was a human computer at the Harvard College Observatory classifying stellar spectra she was the world's leading expert. She created the spectral class system we all love and use today! Annie's Anorexia By The Huntington's. About a "perfect" girl who seems to have everything going for her in life. In reality she is suffering from the eating disorder anorexia. The star of every young boy's dream. I surely would not have guessed she starved herself to fit that dress She never skipped class in her life but she skipped dinner everytime Annie's Song By John Denver.

Song was written by the artist as a tribute to his wife Annie. Come let me love you. Let me give my life to you Let me always be with with you A man with a drinking problem tries to remain sober but gives in to his cravings for alcohol. Everybody's having fun, so why be the one left out in the cold? You said you'd never take another drop. Your craving's big, your liver's shot You've got to dry out As I look back ovre the years, if I didnt call to check in on her-I wouldnt know anything.

That got cut off quickly by my X. I go from talking to her almost daily then I'm cut off from all communication. I went from planning my flight out til complete communication cut off by her dad and her. A month and weeks ago go by and II know nothing but what the doctor has been updating me. MY daughter does not return none of my calls or texts. I finally get this letter that is full of lies. He is stating that I have done nothing but hurt her and now he is protecting her from me.

It was all twisted lies. I got a lawyer its costing a fortune for an emergency hearing for visitations. He has been there weeks now. Is it at all possible to fight for custody. I am so exhausted from this abusive narcissistic opportunist selfish man who thinks the world owes him. I know he is only doing this to hurt me. He has many fooled but I lived and endured the abuse for 17yrs. I am so afraid of the lies he could be filling her head with??? Give it I am wife 3 of 4 all ended in abuse.

I know he promises my daughter materialistic stuff and things. When its life and love of family I try to teach my kids. I have live 17years of total chaos dealing with this ugly human being. I require a specialist in this area to unravel my problem. May be that is you! Looking forward to look you. I'm trying to comment on the poster known as igiveup. I'm not sure if this message is being directed to her since this site is confusing and doesn't make it easy to connect with other alienated parents.

I want, so desperately, to get in touch with this mother because her story is just like mine! However, they are now 23 and 26 and the alienation is still in strongly in effect. I'd like to hear from you, igiveup. If this message has found it's way to you, let me know and I'll gladly discuss this with you further.

I have some advice and sound wisdom to offer you; do NOT call yourself igiveup - not yet, anyway! My ex partner has turned my daughter against me , he cheated on me and I asked him to Leave and since then has repeatedly caused problems calling me an alcoholic which I am not and poisoning my daughters mind. This is all so he can get himself a Council property in which he has succeeded. I tried to speak to child benefit and local Council but they weren't interested and he has got away with it and he has stopped working to get benefits.

I still see my daughter but she isn't the same She is dirty And clearly her dad can do no wrong. He turned me in for fraud, burned everything of mine among many other things. I honestly do not know what to do or say about this He never provided for me and I raised his children from his first marriage My college son ignore text, calls since the divorce. I send comments about tv shows an We did it a couple days than he jyst stopped. It's been two weeks.

What made him stop? My daughter is suffering from parent alienation, I am the grandparent and is really hard to see this happening it's so sad and your emotions are on a roller scooter. There is now a custody battle , how can my daughter prove it is parent alienation.

Hi, I am not sure if I'm in the right place but I need help.. I left my husband because he was controlling, emotionally and mentally abusive, didn't work and was a horrible father and role model for our son. He did have supervised visitation with or son due to threats and different behaviors but now gets out son every other week in the summer months. He has made my son believe that it was all my fault and makes our son feel sorry for him.

Our son Caden doesn't even live with him on his time, he stays with his grandparents who equally hate me and blame me for all their sons unhappiness. So Caden hates me when I make him clean up after himself or brush his teeth or don't buy him something. He teaches Caden to compulsively lie to me.

I can't take it any more. I'm so close to just letting my son live with them which would be horrible, they are horrible people and he is turning into them, especially with swearing and pervertedness which I don't allow in my house How do mothers teach a 2 year old against the father,as prior I got visits with daughter she was happy n ran to me ,but today she hid behind her mum n cried,and went crazy like she was terrified from me,can the mother be doing something to her at home n showing her a photo of me,please explain.

Have come to the sad conclusion that parental alienation is like fighting a losing battle. I found myself here while googling.. I have had full custody of my daughter for 14 yrs I have been married once in 18 yrs and not to her dad.. I am marrying a police office for petes sake.. Since that conversation, I have seen changes in her.. I spend 3K on an attorney to fight this but yesterday I succumbed. Her dad's aunt dates the richest guy in town and has a very unhealthy relationship with my daughter..

My life is over. I have lived my whole life sacrificing for my kids and struggled financially my whole life.. She cant stand to be around me now. I want to go to the highest mountain top and just jump off. I am too tired to keep fighting a losing battle.

My mind is consumed every minute of every day and I keep drawing the same conclusion.. I am leaning toward just telling my attorney that I might as well just relinquish my rights.. My life is basically over. I am powerless to fight against their army of manipulators One day after 21 years of my husband and my son teaming up against me, my husband and I were arguing, again and I said if I ever leave I am taking "Tim" our son with me.

He said he'll never go with you. I said Well let's ask him. My son actually chose me! After all the insults and put downs and everything else, he chose to leave with me.

My husband flew into a rage and accused me of trying to turn his child against him. I said Oh, kind of like what you have been doing all these years?

He said I ought to kick your ass. He slapped me and began to choke me. My son pulled him off me and got punched in the face for his trouble. I called , left the phone off the hook so they could trace the call and they arrested him. The following day I had a temporary restraining order and I filed for divorce.

In 2 weeks I had my yearly restraining order and he had been served divorce papers. It's been 3 years now. My son and I have an amazing relationship. If it wasn't for him choosing me I probably would have never found the strength to do what I did. The article makes it sound that the child not loving a parent is due to the other parent "poisoning" the child against said parent What if the child doesn't love the parent due to the parent's neglect?

So many comments and sad so. I left my abusive husband after 11 years together. Exsacped him for fear of something awful happening to me. Long story short after a court battle to get my son back which took 1. I live a two hour flight away. I'm not moving back anywhere near that man. I have daily calls to my son The system sucks I now have to get the parenting order enforced New Zealand before they will do anything.

The courts need to be tougher on emotional abusers too not just physical abusers. The messages below are so similar to my husbands. His ex-wife has poisoned his daughters starting at 13 and Although my husband has continued to attempt communication, for almost 3 years they have blocked him from all social media as well as their phones.

He continues to send cards, attend hospital procedures and graduations only to be snubbed and ignored. He only knows things going on in their lives from his immediate family who are still included in everything.

Their mother had a rumored affair which they are openly and actively dating now. They are saying he has abandoned them but this is simply not true. He has been a very good father yet is taking the blame, disrespect and hatred while the mother appears to be a saint. I have stayed out of the situation and tried to be good to them and love them. I have done nothing to cause any of this but the mother hates me. My only question and hope is that at some point down the road, they will free themselves of her control and brain-washing and re-establish a relationship with their father.

Is this likely to happen? The youngest graduated from high school this week so his communication will pretty much be cut off except what his family tells him is going on. He won't know addresses to send cards and is blocked from everything. I need help my ex husband is fully aware that i have said no to our being out past curfew or hanging out with her half sister thats 23 has an 8th grade education 2 babies from different boys , has a drinking problem uses drugs and smokes cigarettes and pot Im so scared and dont know what to do..

But shes let grades drop does want to be a "cop" now! Brother is looking his family slowly cause of his ex wife. She had a crush on his best friend. Which she works for and now she's turned his kids against him as an excuse. I know that this is from a male angle, but sometimes the 'influencing' is very subtle, but effective nonetheless. My ex stealthily manipulated my children's opinion of me by implying negative things about me, to which kids say what they are thinking, and then not correcting them or saying "Well, you can think for yourself.

My kids then replied back that I had entered a new relationship with a woman with a child and would be a father to the toddler she had. Then my ex asked "How do you feel about that? My ex did not comment or correct her. The truth was my new partner had no kids and this photo was from her FB, holding a friend's baby. Nor were we cohabiting at that point. When challenged, my ex denied all wrongdoing as she had not specifically told the kids this and claimed she was trying to counsel the kids by bringing out their feelings.

She did this with many other things and by the time I realised this was her game, it was too late and my kids manifested the behaviours in this article. Please, if you get an inkling that this might happen with your kids, do something about it before its too late and don't end up hurting as I am.

I know it will be years before this is fixed and it kills me. Ladies, gentlemen, please, even if you feel your ex is 'fair game' as my ex told me to my face once , your kids are human beings and will be here after you are gone, still dealing with the fallout of your actions.

For their sakes at least, don't do this to other human beings. I feel that my ex is alienating me from my girls.

He won't let me have any form of contact with them even though there is a court order to do so. He has even went as far as to tell my younger daughter that I was "dead". He has made sure that he keeps me from seeing them by increasing my child support so that I am not able to get an attorney to help me get them back.

I really need to find an attorney who will take the case probono so that I am able to get my side heard by the judge as I wasn't able to in the first hearing. I want to know how I can get him for Contempt of Court orders and parental alienation. I live in Virginia but my girls live in Kansas. I need to find an attorney in Virginia who may have an connections with an attorney in in Kansas. That damage my ex has done to my child who is now an adult is so bad I am completely broken and don't know how to even try to turn it around anymore I live with my boyfriend of 7 years and his parents.

I have an 8 year old daughter. They are trying to strip my rights asher mother by excluding me from functions and baiting me into cleaning their house and preparing all the activities whilst not planning to include me. My boyfriend's mom yells at me like she has control over me and makes it a point to force me to sign my daughter up for ballet and karate all which I have been excluded.

I do not agree with the tactics being used against me but I feel there's nothing I can do. My daughter loves them and views my boyfriend and his parents as good fun people so my argument against them becomes null. I don't know if anyone out there knows how painful this can feel or even try to grasp the horrors I am describing here and now but I need help solving this issue to reclaim Mt life and get my daughter back.

My boyfriend pits my daughter against me and also involves her in our fights. I believe he and his parents are narcissists but I have no rights as a human. I almost want to believe that this is all some nightmare I will wake up from but it is actually happening and there's nothing I can do to stop this madness. How do i get my child back when this has happened and what do i need to do.

Do I just need to give her space or what they are only twelve is it to late or can it be fixed. Im so at my whits end. Each and Everyone of them humiliate, swear, bad name calling, don't talk to me unless they want something. I have several illness and not 1 of them helps me.

I have done my best and I do not know what to do I am thinking of leaving that is how severe it is. Also they gather in a little gang and have each other's back if the other lies. I cry and I am depressed and don't feel I can go on. There father works away from home and when he comes back is treated with the up most respect.

He is a crude man swears and has been abusive to me mentally and physically and does continue occasionally be mentally abusive. I honestly don't know what I have brought into this world, but sometimes I wish they'd never been born. I know, even coming from myself it is such a terrible comment.

My health suffers greatly and I get no support have no friends as my children have made sure I have no confidence. I can only say one thing.. My lover of 7 years and. He smoked week when we. I've threatened to leave and have actually took the kids and left and he quit for a while on his own then a friend as him to get some for. Disregarding that I said it wasn't a good idea and he started to smoke it again.. I don't know what to do My own father has done this crap to me and my son his grandchild.

My father is nuts and I am confused why he views me as his ex. I am his daughter for christ sake! I have come to the conclusion that my father hates women period! I am no longer a little girl, I am now a woman in my mid's! So now he views me as the enemy for some weird reason! He is mentally ill and has never ever gotten any help for it!

I guess this is pay back for him not being able to turn me against and bran wash me against my own mother when my parents divorced! God my own son hates me for like no reason at all! What ever since my son is so weak minded, I stay away from him for fear he will pa me himself! Plus my own son tells me he will do this brain washing to my youngest daughter if he ever has a chance to do so! So I don't allow neither one my father nor oldest son to come to my house not contact me in any way any more!

Good riddance of such a headache, I have peace of mind now! I understand everyones frustration and pain. My daughter is only 4 years old, and right now, i am experiencing not having her with me.

For 22 days the court orderd no contact as he made an emergency hearing and claimed i am going to harm my child or flee with her, neither has ever occured. I have fought and won child abuse claims, drug abuse allegations, etc.

I have passed every court ordered drug test, simply i might add The OCS officer cleared me as well as she saw no signs of harm or abuse. Now i have a 4 year old who probably thinks her mother abandoned her bc i was not their to pick her up from school as i was ordered no contact.

I see the judge next friday, but i can only imagine what my daughter is feeling right now. We have never been apart more than 4 days, now it is 22 days possibly 46 till i might have a chance to see her.

The legal system has failed her I am writing this in hopes that an alienating parent might read this. I want them to know you are only hurting your child We can handle our emptions, our children can not. Please think before you press false claims against your ex out of spite. Your anger towards the separation will pass but your child thinking their mother abandoned them will affect them for life.

Think before you act. My daughter is Her father has been working on her for years. Now we barely have a relationship at all. The smallest thing can turn into anew all out battle. The conversation ends with me silent and hurt. Apologizing for asking about her life.

I don't know what to do. How could this happen? I am hurt and lost. At this point I want to just step back and let her go. Nothing I say can make it better. I haven't talked to or seen my son in 6 years. The last time I saw him, at a funeral , he walked in with his father, I didn't even know him.

Outside, I approached him and asked if we could just talk. Meanwhile, my ex was across the street yelling at me, "your pathetic" My ex was or is a drug addict, and after 22 years, not married, I left him , thinking it would be better for my 2 sons.

My 12 year old son lives with me and has no contact with Dad or brother. Which is not what I wanted , I do want him to have a relationship with his brother, and he does need a dad, but, he know how his dad lies, and his brother says such mean things about me, he doesn't even want to talk to him either.

The few things I know about what my ex has told my son is: I am the drug addict and liar , I tried to have them both killed, I tried to poison them. I tried to steal all his money and that backfired, on and on and on. When the ex overdosed ,he had 5 different kinds of drugs in his system, would not go to rehab.

But he told my son , that it was a heart attack, and I made everything up. Can't get the hospital records cause we were not married. I have tried everything I can possibly think of , lawyers, custody agreement, which he never followed, and never got in trouble , hundreds of emails, texts, letters, cards, counseling, had the worst counselor ever tried to get family members to talk to him, huge signs in front of my house , which he would see when he went by in the schoolbus , e-cards, talked to many of my ex's friends, but they all stick up for him , of course.

Talked to my ex's dad , who told me he wants nothing to do with this situation. My heart is absolutely broken, I am deeply depressed, taking antidepressants, anxiety medication, have been to so many counselors, they can't help me, they don't know what to say. My ex claims the son who lives with me is not his, and had DNA test done, I said go ahead, no way its anyone else's.

Then he wanted another one done and wanted to take me to court about it. What is a second one going to show, something different? My lawyer wrote a very good letter to his lawyer. I have breakdowns, sleep for days, cry all the time.

I have missed soooo much of my son's life that I can never get back. Why , why why? What can I do????? I left him with our girls to start a new life because he is a selfish person and he still is. I had no problems and no issues with our girls,know five years from then our girls spit because they see their father spit at me they verbally abuse each other with the horriable swear calling their father calls me in front of them he tells our girls l am not a good mother they tell me he smacks them and just recent has threatened my oldest of my four girls l raised my five girls with cyfs for five years and know my five amazing girls have to listen to a drug and alcohol fathers abuse cyfs police people l have told know of this alot of people say they know he is a good father but l and my four young girls see and have lived with him to know the truth about the abuse that has and is still occuring behind theses walls and in this house and yes l am in court fighting for the safety of my four amazing girls that l care for and always will unconditionally Love.

I have waisted lit's of money on lawyers to maintain a relationship with my son. But suddenly the relation ship has changed. This article explains alot of what has been going on. But does not tell me what I can do to handle this situation.

What can I do about it. This is to Sybil, who posted on Dec. I know exactly how you feel and believe my situation was almost identical to yours!! I wished I had come upon this article 20 years ago when I met my husband and his daughter was almost 9 years old! So often we all hear about 'deadbeat dads', etc. But, you never hear about or, I don't the reality of parental alienation syndrome and the father's who are FALSELY accused of various things by the biological mother and ex-wife!

I sympathize with you, Sybil, and encourage you to get counseling with someone who understands this! The child needs their father, and in our case, the child not having the father in her life as much as he could have been due to the biological mother's sabotaging it , the child has now ended up in a very bad place in her life. Oh, this is my husband's ex-wife and daughter to a T. Anytime he tries to reach out to his 13 year old daughter, she responds with disrespectful, mean-spirited emails and texts back to him that have clearly been doctored up by her angry mother.

My husband has had limited to no contact with his daughter due to not only physically living far apart, but his ex-wife's vitriol directed toward him for divorcing her. Now, my husband is simply a walking ATM machine to them. I'm so angry because I love children, I am a teacher by profession, and I know that my step-daughter is being manipulated beyond our control and it's not right.

DH pays one thousand dollars per month to provide for his daughter, yet there is NO mention of that! My 33yr old who has brain trauma. His girlfriend who lives with him got power of attorney behind my back.

Now she screams his calls, accuses me of saying things like, your mom wished you would have died, telling him I was trying to get his paycheck or tying to tell him I was trying to let the doctors I didn't want him to have blood because of contamination of the bubonic plague Flat out lies. So he is now home and she prevents him to talk to me,and I can't see him and my son when I have talked about seeing my grandchildren he says he can drive over to my house,but he is not able to drive for a long time.

He acts like he is worried about me starting trouble. Lies,this is breaking my heart. Who will check on his safety? What to do if my 33yrold was in an accident with brain trauma and has come a long way but still his mind is not healed and his girlfriend got power of attorney,and doesn't like me She lives with him in his home and has let me talk to him occasionally,I don't even know if he is continuing therapy or since he needs lots of care and there are 3 kids and she's not a cook or good housekeeper, so I worry She has lied aboat me.

So now it's been 3 days and no answer from him or her. We always were close. Well that's my son and what can I do. This to me is so wrong. My ex is now claiming parental alienation. I have always supported and pushed him having a relationship with our son. Once my son 5 told him my new husband around since my son was 2 is his parent also, the problems started. I have proof of the last three years and my push to have him involved as well of his lack of.

Can he just make up stories with no evidence? He has also told the co parenting therapist our son told him I say terrible things about him. We are always positive in our house and do not speak ill of my ex. When my son talks about him, we join in on the excitement he has, as I think its important he knows I am happy for him to be happy while he is with Dad. Do I continue to lead by example and know the older my son gets the more he will see the things his Dad says are not true or should I be preparing?

I am very frustrated at the legal system as I am told if he is not physically abusing him, a drug addict or abusing alcohol we have to live with it. Mental abuse is abuse and I feel the reason for many of the child related violence problems in our society today. Will doing the right thing that I know benefits my sons mental health and future and ignoring his claims as I know they are not true hurt me? I am a divorced dad with a 14 yr old daughter.

I have become disabled and am waiting on disability and since I became sick my daughter has nothing to do with me. Hasn't spent the night with me in over a year.

Won't return calls or texts. Before we were always close My sons are older now but still don't want anything to do with me or there step mom. Does it get any easier.

My step Daughter does not talk to her Dad, her Mother said terrible things about him when she was a child, now she is 36 and still does not return his calls.

I am a non custodial parent. I believe my rx husband has turned my kids against me. My ex has tried his best to turn our kids against me. I was lucky because it did not work,but it was definitely no "fun" going through it.

He was not present in our kids lives for 12 years,yes 12 long years. He left when they were very small btw,we have three children remarried and got divorced him. Anyway, he about a year ago wanted to get to know his our kids and I said ok. Big mistake because it has been hell since then. While he was begging me to help him with the kids to get to know him better, he was as I found out telling them everything the worst about me. Basically it was my fault he left,I was this and that..

Since he makes very good money,he would promise them the "moon". He even took me to court asking for full custody. I won,I have sole physical custody and now even sole legal custody,before I had joint legal.

He is not to have contact with the kids and is ordered mental evaluation,anger management help. It is against the law to bad mouth parent to the child. It is emotional abuse. Howeve r ,I had to collect all the "evidence"to prove what was going on. Emails ,I would write down dates as to what was said or done.

My kids all straight A students while going through this grades went down and so on. At first I tried to talk to him,reason with him,but learned it was to no avail.

I learned the hard way that when one parent tries to to turn kids against the other parent ,it's all about them and not the kids. Parent s that do this are incredibly selfish. Every kid wants to have two loving parents, divorce or not. Yes , there were times when I was scared.. I would catch myself asking them.. I simply did my best to put energy only in to them,not him. I was able to present to court that what he is doing to our children is not to "help" them but it's hurting them.

We are doing fine now again kids and I. He is still "trying". Even after the court,after what kids said to the mediator..

I still get messages from him. The latest one was calling me and old,ugly,poor cow. My ex boyfriend has custody of my 5year old daughter and 4year old son. My daughter says I don't love her or want her and she acts so mad at me. My son wants me and always cry's when I take them back to there dad. I only get to see my kids once to two times a week for a hour supervised and when I ask for longer the dad always says no.

I don't know what to do anymore. My ex wife tried turning my Daughter against me luckily my Son has always sided with me since the family break up,Not that it's a game as the children suffer when these childish tactics are used,But anyway now my Son has been telling me that his Mums best friend has been saying stuff to him like 'Why are you always staying at your Daddies', 'Your Daddy is a monster' 'Your Daddy is a naughty man', My daughter is afraid to sleep over at my house because this friend of hers is constantly telling my children that I am a bad person, I would love to ask this woman face to face just why she is doing this??

My son is now His father has threatened to stop paying for hockey and hockey school unless he agrees to live at his house. He's also manipulated him into believing my family and I have somehow victimized him the father so my son feels sorry for him. And now my son isn't allowed to contact me or his family on my side, out of loyalty to his father. Because my son is 14, the police, social services and the courts won't do anything about it. My daughters are We were always close, had awesome relationship.

My ex wife has always made my visits difficult, and has tried pushing me out of their life's several several times. Using brainwashing and manipulation tactics. Well now my kids don't want nothing to do with me. The hurt is consuming my life, I cry every morning, missing them so bad.. How could they not know the difference? They know I love them. This whole thing is killing me: My daughter sees her dad every ofher weekend sometimes he to busy she cime back then I get it I dont lije living hear I wanba live with my dad screams pyshes me all the time ime I give her dad that choice to go live there I even drooed her off and he asked my mam taje her on full time but in my daughters eyes he got work she nearly 12 year old she was ginba change schools every he turned her down This is a message to Taylor.

I am going down that same path right now. My ex-wife has destroyed my relationship with my 2 young girls. They have fallen for her manipulation tactics and it has broken my heart. Good people are getting hurt. I don't have the answers but God does. Keep being a good person. It is God who we will ALL answer to someday. I am getting messages from my children that my ex's partner is bad mouthing me to my children.

Is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening? My older son has already alienated himself from me. I am battling this issue with my child. I feel as if the father is brainwashing him to go against me the mother.

How do I stop this. My husband has been experiencing this for years, so much so that I have watched this tear him apart. You cleared that up quite nicely as you screamed it in his face how much you hated him and have always hated him. You reminded him that he was not entitled to have a home, or a vehicle to get around in after all the hours he spends at work.

You kindly reminded him that he should have nothing and ensure that your University Education and everything you desire is free, and he live in poverty to provide you with this.

So let me remind you of just what you are entitled to as his child… 1. You are entitled to his love, which he has given and has had endlessly spat back into his face. This love he will never take away, it is yours to keep, regardless of how you treat him or view him. You were entitled to a home. He did not chose this path, but he struggled on with the path that he was shoved on. He tried over and over to include you in his life but you screamed, slammed doors in his face, said horrible things about him, and used him like he was your kicking post.

You were entitled to be supported, fed and clothed until you finished high school, your mother was given money for your support a generous amount based on what the courts decided was appropriate with the additional monies for extras , which he never failed to pay and still felt the burden of being called a dead beat dad and much more.

How your MOTHER chose to spend this money, whether it be on you, herself or your siblings was in her hands, unfortunately, your father did not ever have control of that. A parent that is financially stable in their old age due to choices and sacrifices, and saying NO to a child to ensure that there is stability of home and family first. You are entitled as an ADULT, which you are, to get a student loan or job and pay for your own University education, just like he did, and countless of others are doing.

So as an ADULT here is what you are also Entitled to and responsible for, since you declared so loudly that you are an adult and can say and do what you want! You and only you are responsible for the choices and actions you do. No matter what you perceive or how much you want to blame circumstances or others.

You will now have to own those choices and actions, as he will no longer take responsibility for them or beg people to forgive you, or make excuses for you.

Welcome to being told NO and having to live with that. Here is my hope for you: I hope you never feel the pain of rejection from your child or encourage your child to reject their other parent. I hope that you never have to cry the tears that your father has cried, or watch the man you love cry tears of helplessness and spend hours of sleepless nights, while begging a child to love you. Your father never has been nor will he ever be a perfect man, but he is a man who loves you even with all the hate you have shown him and all the terrible things you have said to others about him.

I just don't now what will happen when, I till my boys that they going to live with me now. Just because they have lived with there mother for the last two years, I now my oldest might be a little up set, and my youngest will be happy.

I say this because there mother has tried to put me out of there life for the last two years. I now they love me and be fore I started this path of sing dad. I told them I love them no matter what. If some one might give me a idea, because I have never done this and I now it will make my kids life batter for them in the long run. My daughter and I had a great relationship until a few months ago. I tried to limit her online time and asked her to stay off social media after a certain time of night.

She became very disrespectful of me. Then he started taking her with himto run errands which I didn't think much of. I thought he was trying to be a better father. Him letting her speak to me rudely and countering any discipline had me contact a therapist to discuss it. While at the therapy session, she texts her DAD and says she is ready to move out with him.

Unbeknownst to me during the whole hour his family moved he and my 13 year old daughter out of my home. When we walked it the door from the appointment, I noticed all the valuables in the house were gone and my husband hands me his wedding ring and says WE ARE DONE and walk a out 28th my daughter who won't look at me.

This child was never abused, mistreated or even made uncomfortable by me. And he just walked out with her. It has been four weeks and I have seen her only a handful of times. We agreed during this time to share custody but have no papers yet so many times when she is to come to me, he or she will call last minute and says she just doesn't want to come. And he says she is in charge so he isn't going to make her.

She is 13 and he is allowing her to call the shots. Since this happened, the music I was trying to limit has become an obsession. She is on YouTube every waking moment. He allowed her to dye her hair bright red and indulges in her every desire to only wear black and stay on social media all the time. All the things I was trying to keep at a healthy minimum. I'm not sure what to do here.

She told me and him that she never wants is back together again and that she is in charge of where she chooses to stay. She is being allowed to make adult decisions and that isn't good for her. I am so worried for her. And I miss her So. Children can have their own damn opinions. Sometimes they take more after one parent more than the other. So stop treating them like they're some sort of biological weapon.

It's hard enough being a child of divorce without paranoid soccer moms accusing you of siding with the "enemy", which happens to be their other loving parent. How true, Two weeks ago, our senior year daughter, loved and protected from day of birth, supportive extended family, loved her grandparents, cooked with her mother and lost herself in my old high school library of classics, learned to speak proper English before she was 8.

Documentaries about history, and of course the occasional cartoon to chill out. Suddenly where just 3 weeks ago, we were sitting and studying some philosophy together, a father daughter thing that we had been doing for 10 years and such. She is an English Major, Honors program.

A week later, my wife found out from her mother that she had said that the two phone calls my wife had to her job since she never returned messages left, regarding her responsibilities to take over car payments as agreed to now that she had a job that could pay for it, my wife and I are both disabled and the money is tight.

She termed the phone calls as her mother "terrorizing" her?!?!?!?!?! And she wont come in the house cause she is afraid of me because when she was a child, she caught me in a bad mood in my office kicking bills around on the floor because times were tight and I was out of work. Oh I traumatized her it seems. I never laid an angry hand on her, never let her go to bed angry if we had a tiff about something, and now cause of me beating the tar out of some paperwork she is afraid to come in the house.

She has a boyfriend who comes from money, does not work, and I think is filling her head with crap about how she shouldnt have to pay for anything. The last time she did call, she said she was recording the conversation about the car, something akin to when you call an official business office and they tell you the conversation would be recorded.

Who is this person??? Her boyfriend is fortunate that Im keeping a cool head because I dont take kindly to those who instigate trouble among a family who were very happy till she went off to college. She said she is just taking sometime away after all the trouble we went thru to prepare the nice back guest room she wanted to move back into to save rent and this is the slap we get.

I feel so much like burning her stuff and selling all her movie memorabilia collectibles, action figures, Harry Potter, you know, stuff that gets valuable over time as they cease being sold.

My wife has kept me from this move, but I am so bitter and heartbroken as you can imagine my wife is. I dont know what to do. She was bad as returning calls as a matter of habit, but the last time she was here, she had come to sneak in and grab some clothes and sneak out, our questions about this lurking around like a prowlerm caught her in a tangle of lies, which she is not good at since we taught her love of her fellow man and the importance of truth and honesty.

Im at my wits end. How do you keep a door for reconciliation open for even a child so loved as we love our daughter when she turned and emotionally slapped and kicked us the way she did.

And what do I do with those whispering in her ear, boyfriend in particular though there might be other enablers. Thanks for letting me vent. I sign this with the description of how I feel waking up every morning to this reality. My oldest son does so many of these things. Hes been manipulated so much it's like he has turned into his father.. My suspectedly narcissistic ex-husband divorced me before our first year anniversary with a DIY divorce which I didn't contest due to years and years of exhaustion with trying to prove myself or my worthiness or my love for him.

My oldest son has been told by his father since he was a very young child that he will come to live with him when he's He has been constantly telling him this reassuring him that its okay that he moves because he has to since he will be a teenager and needs to "learn to be a man" Meanwhile, precisely upon turning 13, here came the conversation or should I say rehearsed lines.

When giving me his reasons his voice gets lower and eerily calm and almost monotone as he sounds like a parrot saying the very things I have heard his father say and it's as if he's in the room coaching him and smothering him with HIS truth and rationale about life which he so often does. It drives me nuts that our son defends his father's every move and he doesn't think for himself but rather mimics his father's thoughts, philosophies, theories, words and actions.

I fear that he will grow up to be an insensitive narcissist like his dad. I know his wanting the boys to move with him is not about our sons' best interest as he claims, but rather control because he always has to control and manipulate and have his way and is a perpetual victim.

If it wasn't about control and having his way, he wouldn't have put it in the DIY bogus decree in the first place. Why must she punished me using a little son,now she is married and won't let me see my son,she told me to stop sending money and that he is fine,so I stopped and I op pend account every month little I have make sure i deposit and save but not being able to do anything for my son kills me I brought clothes she wrote me sms telling me she burned I need help.

For those of you still going through custody courts with a narcissist. Your gonna need a lot of personal counseling and I suggest you look up the website Liz Libraries. The men who have access to more money and have a grudge with you.

What I have been through has debilitated me forever. I don't know where the money trail ends. But I do know in Texas a lot of children who have been sexually abused and a pediatrician has validated it. Are given to the abusers with full custody and you will end up paying for a supervisor with 3 hour 1 day a week visits. My abuser treated our daughter terrible. And the memory of her crying for me 8 years ago and barely any contact since then.

Should be an obvious sign this parent is vindictive, and not thinking about the child's welfare at all. But his glory as you keep fighting in court.

In Texas if the judge assigns your ex full conservator. The next nasty thing they'll do is hold you accountable financially for his legal bills and put a lien on you. There are several States with the same problem. California, Connecticut, Ohio, Arizona, Florida are the biggest ones besides us. Depending on who your ex hired for retainer. You may want to google their names and see other cases.

If you can appeal it. Or demand that for the welfare of the Child you want an arbitrator that is NOT assigned by the courts. If your in S. Please go to google communities and look me up under Giacanni Lamia. Hi Cara, I'm a tormented mother of 3 ages 14; 10 and 5. I separated from my husband about 18 months ago and its been a battle. I endured 17 long years of physical abuse. Unfortunately my children don't see anything wrong with their dad abusing me because that is all that they have been exposed to.

He has had numerous extra marital affairs during the period we were together. When he left our marital home he swore that he would take the children away from me and leave me with nothing. I can do the best for my children but they only appreciate the expensive gifts; clothing and holidays he showers them with.

This man refuses to left me live a peaceful life and as such uses my children to report to him all that happens at home on a weekly basis. He has now applied through the high court for immediate residency of the children and fabricated numerous unfounded allegations against me which have been proven to be false. This man is such a sociopath and narcissist that he has even avoided being arrested, for assaulting me last month, via a warrant of arrest which was granted to me. Now I'm faced with an uncooperative Investigating officer who refuses to arrest my ex and finalise my case because I turned down his advance in the presence of a colleague Ultimately in SA, woman are not actually protected by the courts nor the police and all our cries for protection and safety of our lives falls on deaf ears Hi my ex took my 3 children, and l rang to talk to them but it just seems like they don't want to talk to me and it's so upsetting.

Hi, I have been with my partner now for 10years and we have a 7 year old son, everything was going great at first until his mother started interfering in our lives and even worse when we had our son, I have not spoken to her for 3 years now as she has caused a lot of trouble between me and her son because she can't stop interfering and thought because I was in a relationship with her son thought it gave her the right to invade our lives.

To cit a long story short since I stopped talking to his mother my life has become hell as my partner treats me like a doormat, arranging meals out with his family and days out etc with our son and not giving me a second thought and then wondering why I am getting so annoyed at the way he is treating me.

I just feel like he and his family are trying to turn my son against me when all I want is for the 3of us to do normal family things together, is it so wrong of me to want this, I then get told off my partner that I'm bonkers and he puts me down all the time.

Is anybody else in this situation? Lots of us here are dealing with narcissistic behavior, there are different forms, but most are emotionally avaliable, have no real caring about their kids or ex. They are selfish and crave attention and worship from their kids. They will blame everything and everyone else for their poor choices and bad behavior. I feel for you, cause I have been there, their behavior is confusing and frustrating for caring people to try and understand.

Take care of yourself spuritually and physically so you can be the best parent for your child. These people will have to answer for their behavior in the end.

Rick, I read your story and it took me back a few years to a time when I was going through a similar situation. My then-wife was also diagnosed with depression, was a single child, adopted, and began doing all of the activities with them on her own with friends.

I felt that I was losing their love. I thought that if I kept my head above water, this would soon go away. But it never did.

It went so far that she committed adultery not once, not twice, but three times until she eventually asked for a divorce. I don't blame her for this.

Perhaps the one thing that slapped me across the face was a pre-school Father's Day card that my daughter wrote for me. In it, students wrote down Favorites of their Father's. My Father's Favorite color is: Black, My Father's Favorite food is: What brought me to tears was when I got to "My Father's Favorite thing to do is:

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