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People feel lonely for a number of reasons, including simple social awkwardness and intentional isolation. Some people may even feel lonely when they are surrounded by people because they lack meaningful connections with those people.

Dealing with loneliness can take many forms, including meeting new people, learning to appreciate your alone time, and reconnecting with your family. Keep reading to learn more about how to deal with loneliness. Expert Reviewed Why choose wikiHow? When you see the green expert checkmark on a wikiHow article, you know that the article has received careful review by a qualified expert.

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Identify the reasons why you feel lonely. In order to make changes that will truly help you, you will need to take some time to figure out why you are feeling lonely.

You may still feel lonely after making new friends if your loneliness is the result of having too many friends and a lack of meaningful connections. Consider some of the following questions to help you determine why you are feeling lonely: When do you feel the most lonely? Do certain people make you feel more lonely when you are around them?

How long have you been feeling this way? What does feeling lonely make you want to do? Start a journal to track your thoughts and feelings. Journaling can help you to understand your feelings of loneliness better and it is also a great way to relieve stress.

You can start by writing about how you are feeling or what you are thinking, or you can use a prompt. Some prompts you might use include: How long have you felt this way? Some research has suggested that meditation may ease feelings associated with loneliness and depression. Learning to meditate takes time, practice, and guidance, so your best bet is to find a meditation class in your area. If no classes are available in your area, you can also buy CDs that will help you learn how to meditate.

You can either sit in a chair or on a cushion on the floor with your legs crossed. Close your eyes and concentrate on your breathing. As you focus on your breathing, try not to get distracted by your thoughts. Just let them happen and pass by. Without opening your eyes, observe the world around you.

Pay attention to how you feel as well. What do you hear? What do you smell? How do you feel? Consider talking to a therapist about how you have been feeling. It may be hard to figure out why you feel lonely and how to move past those feelings. A licensed mental health professional can help you to understand and work through your loneliness. Feeling lonely may indicate that you are depressed or that you have another underlying mental health condition.

Talking to a therapist can help you understand what is going on and decide on the best course of action. Realize that you aren't alone. Loneliness is a normal part of being human, but it can make you feel like you are abnormal. Reach out to a friend or family member and talk with that person about how you are feeling. As you tell someone about your feelings, you can also ask if they have had these feelings too. This process of reaching out and sharing with someone will help you to see that you are not alone.

Instead of persistently dwelling on how alone you feel, do things to get your mind off of your loneliness. Take a walk, ride your bike or read a book. Explore activities and hobbies, and don't be afraid to try new things. Having experience gives you a basis upon which you can comment in more social situations thus talk to more people and strike up conversations that will interest other people.

Having down time is what causes feelings of loneliness to creep in. Throw yourself into work or extracurricular activities. Do social activities by yourself. For example, if you want to go out to dinner or to a movie on a date, then take yourself out to a movie or to a nice restaurant. Although, at first, it may seem awkward to be doing things by yourself that you might normally do with someone else, don't hold yourself back. It is not strange to be by yourself and out doing things!

Once you remember why you did these things before, you can enjoy the activity for itself again. Take a book, magazine, or journal with you if you go out to eat or have coffee on your own, so you'll be occupied when you would usually be conversing.

Bear in mind that people do go out on their own on purpose just to have "me" time by themselves; it is not as if people will look at you sitting alone and assume you have no friends. It may take some time to get used to the feeling of being out by yourself. Consider getting a pet. If you're truly struggling without companionship, consider adopting a dog or cat from your local animal shelter. Pets have been domestic companions for centuries for a reason, and winning the trust and affection of an animal can be a deeply rewarding experience.

Be a responsible pet owner. Make sure your pet is spayed or neutered, and only commit to bringing a pet into your life if you're prepared to handle the daily tasks of caring for it. Get involved in activities. To make new friends, you will have to get out and get involved in things. Consider joining a sports league, taking a class, or volunteering within your community.

If you are very shy, find a group for social anxiety, even if it has to be online. Look on places like Craigslist, Meetup, or local news websites for activities in your area. Try to go with no expectations whatsoever and to enjoy yourself regardless of what happens.

Look for activities that interest you and that also involve groups of people like book clubs, church groups, political campaigns, concerts and art exhibitions. Challenge yourself to take the initiative in social relationships.

Making new friends often requires you to take the first step and invite others out to do things. Don't wait for people to approach you: Ask the person if they want to chat or get a coffee.

You must always show interest in other people before they will show interest in you. That may lead to the end of the new friendship before it even gets started.

Be a good listener. Pay close attention when people are talking. It is important to be able to respond to what the person has just said to demonstrate that you were listening or they may feel like you do not care. Spend time with your family. Working to deepen the relationships with your family may also help you to stop feeling so lonely.

Even if you don't have a great history with a family member, you can still try to repair relationships by starting with an invitation.

When trying to rebuild or deepen your relationships with family members, you can use some of the same strategies you would use to gain new friends. Take the initiative to ask the person out, be yourself, and be a good listener. Be a pleasant presence.

Draw people toward yourself by providing enjoyable company. Be complimentary rather than critical. For a casual comment, don't nitpick other people's clothes, habits or hair. They don't need to be reminded they have a small stain on their shirt when they can't do anything about it.

They do need to hear that you think their sweater is cool or you like their personality. Don't make a big deal of it, but just casually mention it when you like something.

This is one of the best ice-breakers around and it builds trust steadily over time as people come to understand that you won't criticize them. Join an online community. Sometimes connecting with people online can be easier than connecting with them in person, but keep in mind that online interaction is not an equal substitution for face-to-face connections.

Online forums often allow you to help others while being helped yourself. Remember to be safe when online. Not everyone is who they say they are and predators feed off loneliness.

Differentiate between loneliness and solitude. Loneliness is when you are unhappy to be alone. Solitude is when you are happy to be alone.

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Alone time can be useful and enjoyable. Work on improving yourself and making yourself happy. Usually, when we're devoting most of our time to other people, we tend to neglect ourselves.

If you're going through a period of loneliness, take advantage of it by doing the things that you want to do for yourself. This is a wonderful opportunity and you deserve to be happy! Consider joining a gym. Working out and taking care of our bodies is usually the first thing that gets tossed aside when we get busy. If you're spending less time with other people than normal, try using that time to exercise.

If you exercise at a gym, you might even meet some new friends or a new special someone! Learn a new skill. Taking time to indulge in a new hobby can help you to overcome feelings of loneliness, even if you are doing the hobby by yourself.

You could learn to play an instrument, learn to draw, or learn to dance. Going and learning these subjects with others may help you meet new people but it will also give you a creative outlet for your feelings. Turn your loneliness into something beautiful! Cook yourself a nice meal or make baked goods for friends or neighbors.

Cooking up a meal is rewarding, you can channel your focus into something nourishing. Consider joining a club to meet other people who enjoy this hobby as well. People oftentimes have something really big that they want to do and a thousand excuses not to do it. Have you ever wanted to write a book?

Use your loneliness as an excuse to do something great. Who knows, maybe it will turn into something that helps others deal with their loneliness What if everyone you know, including family members, are verbally and emotionally abusive? I feel lonely because they don't act as if I belong. You are your own best friend. So, if you feel that everyone is bad with you, then try interacting on social media to find like-minded people who care about you. Dig yourself into your hobbies.

Demand respect in place of abuse when you feel more assertive. Leave these people the moment you are able to -- they don't deserve you and are likely taking advantage of you because they know they can. Not Helpful 49 Helpful You may feel lonely around them because they don't take you seriously or they think you're annoying, loud, mean, etc.

Try and take a break from them. Hang out with some old friends, like people you rarely hang out with, but you like them. It may also be that you feel sapped, and your energy is drained by negative friends. Again, find friends who don't do this to you. Not Helpful 23 Helpful I am afraid to make new friends after my old friends abandoned me. I feel it will just happen again.

Old friends are from the past. Let go, move on. There are beautiful people out there who are kind, and nice, and loyal. Friends who will be by your side no matter what happens.

While you're feeling scared right now, be reassured that you will connect with trustworthy friends once you're ready to reach out again. Not Helpful 43 Helpful I feel that my friends use me and don't consider my friendship as a serious one.

So, I feel very lonely, even being with people. I don't know how to stop these problems. You might need to take a break from that group of friends if you feel that they use you and that they don't cherish your friendship.

Be reassured that many people feel lonely around other people; this happens when there is no connection, a lack of fulfilling engagement or when you feel that others just don't "get you" and carry on with what you consider to be banal banter.

You may be a highly sensitive person https: Cherish yourself more and look for people you can connect with, and some of that lonely-around-others feeling may dissipate. Not Helpful 32 Helpful The pain experienced when you have lost a loved one is a difficult thing to deal with. It is also a normal part of the human condition, so it's important to understand that your grief and pain are real and have to be accepted and worked through.

Introspection can help you to process and assimilate to the changes you are experiencing. Remembering the meaningful moments you spent with your loved one can help you get through the grieving process as well as honor that person's life.

It can be a great help to talk to others who are also grieving the loss of this person. Not Helpful 11 Helpful I feel lonely even when I have friends, family and a relationship. Sometimes I get the feeling to run away and go to some quiet place.

What should I do? It's normal to feel lonely. You don't need to be alone to be lonely, and not all who are alone are also lonely. It's okay to want to be by yourself from time to time. If that desire is harming your normal functioning, consider scheduling time in your agenda where you are alone, even making it a regular weekly habit.

Loneliness can be caused when your social interactions do not provide enough satisfaction. Doing things you like, with other people who like these things too, is one way to relieve that problem. Not Helpful 7 Helpful How can a handicapped person deal with loneliness?

The handicap keeps me from dancing, joining a gym, etc. I can't do what others do to combat their loneliness. Sports aren't the only way to deal with loneliness. What are your hobbies? What are you interested in? Join a book club, a writing course, an art class, a drama club, a computer programming course.

Learn a language, go to a language school. Friends can be made wherever you go! Not Helpful 18 Helpful I feel very lonely, and want to die and blame myself for everything.

Thoughts of death are very serious. Make an appointment with your doctor, write down how you're feeling, and ask for a depression screening. This is treatable and you do not have to live the rest of your life this way. Not Helpful 59 Helpful Please call the National Suicide Helpline at They will help you! Not Helpful 14 Helpful Depression can take the happiness away no matter what you are doing.

If this is the case you'll want to address it. Talk to someone you trust and will be understanding. You may need to go to a doctor to talk to about this issue and know you are not alone with your feelings.

Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Tips Don't take casual acquaintances to be deep true friends you can trust with everything.

Build that trust gradually and accept them as they are. There's nothing wrong with having lots of acquaintances, a fair number of friends you'd be comfortable meeting in person to share activities and a much smaller intimate group of friends you'd trust with personal information.

Think of your contacts as a series of concentric circles. Realize that one can be "lonely in a crowd. For some people, it is difficult to connect with those around them. In this case, outside counseling may help. Learn to be happy with yourself.

People like to be around those who are upbeat and confident. Get out of the house It's amazing the groups people have started -- strangers at first, quickly becoming friends centered around like-interests. There are many groups there, so you can easily find people with the same interests or you can search the member database.

If you've never written to strangers before, it might sound a bit odd, but when I used to send letters real postal letters to pen pals worldwide, it was super amazing how we could connect. I love learning about other lifestyles, options, and living a more full life simply via the written word.

You might decide to travel with the pal, or visit their hometown, and in turn, they visit yours. What keeps me up at night is fearing that well-meaning people will try to interfere with my choices.

Assumptions about aging are what keep me up at night. This one is scary Without knowing the full fear this person is living, it's a little hard to guess What I mean -- is this retiree really needing help but in denial of what is needed to keep them living safely? On the other hand, many of us are independant seniors who choose to live as we please. How can anyone take our life options away from us?

How dare they assume they know what we need? Often, a mediator of sorts is necessary as a go-between the well-meaning family and the senior. Someone who is impartial and logical can often help both parties with a solution that makes them all happy and satisfied that their loved one is safe. The attorneys there can be advocates for seniors who feel they are being taken advantage of.

Finally, on Assumptions on Aging, we all know every single senior is different. Write a page on this site to test retiree reaction Dealing with husband's laziness and self-centerness; fear of dying. I am pretty healthy but still have fears, financial concerns, fixed income. Click on the book or check out more Marriage in Retirement Books here.

Sadly enough, there are divorce in retirement books too. The thing about rolling solo is realizing that you have the option of making yourself either available or inaccessible.

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